Hiya im a 35 year old male and i would never thought I would have to write something like this, we all feel indestructible and I'm certainly feeling my mortality at the moment.
So over 2 months ago I started getting a pain on my right side only in my shoulder chest and side ribs for about 2 weeks I thought I just slept funny or something, spoke to the doctor and went to see him and he said that he thinks it's muscular.
Within a few days my right lymph node behind my jaw was swollen. This time alarm bells started ringing as I have a history of cancer in my family in the 30s and all these symptoms were on the same side.
I spoke to my doctor again and he said don't worry. Waited 4 more weeks spoke to him a 3rd time he said don't worry it's fine.
In this time I went to see a chiropractor to see if that would help and it didn't.
We are now over 2 and a half months in and I'm getting pain in both my arm pits chest and ribs with both jaw glands solid as a rock and both fairly large, I had to push my GP hard for a blood test after the 5th time talking to them and no examination at all!
I ended up seeing a private doctor and he did say that I need to push for an urgent ultrasound because my family history and both nodes feel really hard but didn't wanna discuss the chest/shoulder/rib pain as he said without a CT he would be guessing.
So I'm now at a point where I just don't trust my GP and i could be waiting another 4 to 6 weeks for scans with the covid situation so went to a private cancer clinic who also said that lymphoma needs ruling out (1600 pound for ultrasounds, CT and blood tests, but I don't care it's quicker and they can give faster referrals if there are issues)
So my main worry is ... I know as people we should not self diagnose and im not trying to do that but I am 90% sure it's cancer, right now my biggest concern is if it's lung cancer or lymphoma...
I'm still staying optimistic that it is something trivial but with pain all on the same side of my body and symptoms randomly appearing, which feels like it's spreading around I'm bricking it right now. Along with serious night sweats that my missus has noticed and fatigue (that could be down to not working right now)!!
I'll be speaking to the private clinic Monday to book in my tests for this week while waiting for my bloods from my GP.
Anyway thanks for listening.