Has anyone had an enlarged lymph node for six/seven years?

Hi everyone, I'm new here.

I've been trying to find examples online of chronically enlarged nodes which people have had for maybe six years or more. Not much has come up; I suppose often people might get them looked at a bit sooner than that.

I have had one in the top of my thigh for roughly that long. I found it either just before or just after my last child was born, I can't remember - it felt hard-ish and lentil-sized, and I made a note but it didn't do anything, so I just kept monitoring it. After a year or two it was probably the size of a baked bean, and then a couple of years later more like a small kidney bean I suppose. It was mobile, and smooth and seemed to fluctuate a bit - I assumed because of hormones, or whatever was causing it to be enlarged in the first place. So it got a bit bigger, then smaller again.

At that point I went to the GP about it, but she wasn't able to feel it and just said watch and wait. Anyway a month or two ago it started to feel a bit uncomfortable, like it might be pressing on a nerve I suppose, and although it wasn't really noticeably larger it was bothering me; I've been able to see it through the skin for a couple of years, in certain positions, and I don't like it being there. So I went back and she could feel it this time, and said she would send me for an ultrasound. And I had blood tests which have come back more or less fine, so I'm just waiting for an appt and freaking out a bit.

Having searched it up, it seems as though it would fit the profile for Follicular Lymphoma quite well. I can't feel any other lumps anywhere, and I haven't had any B symptoms.

I suppose I'm trying to find a differential diagnosis for it other than FL, but I can't seem to come up with much - everything seems to be either about reactive nodes, which are softer and go away after a while, or malignant ones - it doesn't feel hard like I imagine a metastatic node would, and it isn't fixed. So if it isn't an indolent form of lymphoma then I'm not sure what else it could be.

If anyone else has got, or had, a weird solitary (I hope) node like this, for years and years, I'd be really interested to hear from you - even if it was malignant. Just going a bit mad I suppose.

Thanks for reading if you got this far : )

 

Parents
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  • My son has just turned 3 and he's had a lump on his right side of his neck for 2 years now. It's about one cm in size maybe a bit bigger. We took him to the children's hospital back in late 2019 to see a specialist but they didn't scan him or anything at all. They hardly even got a chance to look at it really because he was so upset being there. The conclusion was that's it is a swollen lymph node and has just stayed that way since possibly having cradle cap. They said it might never go away or it could. 
     

    does this sound like an acceptable conclusion? Since they didn't scan him at all? He's just tiny and every day I see it and it worry's me. He's not poorly or anything. He has a very croaky voice for a little boy but I'm not sure if that can be linked to the lump ‍♀️ It's maybe just the way he talks. 
     

    any advice welcome. 

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  • My son has just turned 3 and he's had a lump on his right side of his neck for 2 years now. It's about one cm in size maybe a bit bigger. We took him to the children's hospital back in late 2019 to see a specialist but they didn't scan him or anything at all. They hardly even got a chance to look at it really because he was so upset being there. The conclusion was that's it is a swollen lymph node and has just stayed that way since possibly having cradle cap. They said it might never go away or it could. 
     

    does this sound like an acceptable conclusion? Since they didn't scan him at all? He's just tiny and every day I see it and it worry's me. He's not poorly or anything. He has a very croaky voice for a little boy but I'm not sure if that can be linked to the lump ‍♀️ It's maybe just the way he talks. 
     

    any advice welcome. 

Children
  • Hi there. My 7 year old has had a small lump that sometimes gets bigger when he's poorly but then goes down but it's always there if I feel it (Wich really annoys him because I check it all the time as I'm so worried) he's had it since he was about 1, well that's when I noticed it. I took him to the doctors a few times and they referred him to ENT who said it was just because he has an enlarged tonsil and children under 7 usually have them swell up constantly as they always have colds. He said they remain swollen for upto 6 weeks after the infection and by the time they come to go down they get another illness so it's back up. It still doesn't stop me from worrying like crazy all the time. It's good to read others have this too.