Hi there ...

That's a bummer ... and yea it's better knowing then being in the dark .. but I remember crying for two days , locked away on my own .. got every feeling out .. then got up brushed myself down .. put on a pair of vertual boxing gloves... nice pink ones ... and was ready to get in the ring and look it in the eye ... 

So be ready for different emotions to come and go ...  but all those breast lasses that came on here with me 2 years ago, are still here .. we've not lost one yet .. and one of them has just had a new baby to boot ..   so hold on .. get your gloves on, and join us all in the ring ... kicking cancers butt ... 

Sending you a vertual hug...  Chrissie x

Snap! It's all totally doable love, you just get impatient to crack on with treatment.....keep us updated? Xxx

Thanks so much everyone I’m going on holiday on Saturday I’m not going to cancel because of this Dr agreeable I’m otherwise feeling well in myself and get the holiday over with and try to enjoy I’m sure I will it’s no need to stay at home crying and looking forward to the break nothing happens treatment wise for a good few weeks anyway so will take the edge of waiting.

Much love to you all xx

Hi Lovely,

i think you are doing the right thing,go away,rest and relax and enjoy!!! 

Nothing is going to change so great idea rather than sit at home worrying and crying....

Go for it and have a fantastic break because you deserve it!!! 

Love Jackie xxx

hi update to my post !!

i returned this week from my holiday best decision ever feel so much more positive after rest & relaxation and lots of nice food and oh yes the wine I  had my appointment with specialist nurse and pre-op on Friday then meeting with surgeon tomorrow to discuss surgery 

i was told by specialist nurse pathology reporting ER positive and Her2 negative my lumpectomy is on the 11 th October xxx marie 

Hi 

So pleased you had a great holiday and it’s relaxed you!!

Yours same as mine,only ER positive so all steam ahead for your pre operation tests and checks.They are nothing to worry about at all..... get some soft bras,I’ve worn sports Bras as so soft and comfortable....

Youll be fine with the surgery Marie I’m sure!!

Much love Jackie xxx

hi I had my lumpectomy yesterday 2 nodes removed 1st one negative 2nd one borderline everything went to plan came home late last night my choice they wanted me to stay overnight as I’d been dehydrated  due to pre surgery  fasting and needed a lot of iv fluids but I’m ok now just tired and sore throat from the anaesthetic I have no pain and feeling comfortable and rested I now wait 3 weeks for results and a way forward with a treatment plan .

best wishes marie .x

Hi Marie,

Pleased all operation done for you and you aren't too sore!!! 
I am just back from a week away where I was so relaxed and now have to start Radiotherapy on Monday...eekkkkk.

Just rest and relax hun wearing your sports bras and gentle exercise!!

Much love 

Jackie xxx