Can't stop worrying

Hi,

I'm a 42 year old male who was referred just over a year ago on an urgent referral for quite heavy rectal bleeding coupled with constant cramping pain in my right side.

I had a quick flexi signoidoscopy which was clear and was told I the bleeding was from haemorrhoids.  Ihave since had 3 banding  attempts over the last year, none of which have stopped the  bleeding which is quite constant and heavy i.e. large dark red blood clots and dark red toilet water, sometimes the bleeding doesn't stop for 20 minutes.

Over the year initally my iron levels dropped (ferritin) and in February I was put on ferrous fumerate tablets. I had a FBC done in June and I am now anaemic despite taking iron daily.

Had an appointment with my consultant yesterday, who has previously quickly dismissed any concerns I've had

This time though he came into the room not making eye contact and quickly suggested that he needs to perform an urgent colonscopy to make sure he hasn't missed anything sinister.

His reason was that it is very unusual to become anaemic from haemorrhoids (although not impossible).

His demeanour and the constant pain I have in my right side have now got me extremely worried and I was was wondering if anyone else has been at this stage who could reassure me a little?

  • Hi there,

    I'm sorry to hear about the problems you've been having.

    I'm also sorry to hear about the effect that your GPs manner and your pain has hav on you while you're waiting to have your procedure done.

    I think sometimes Doctors try to use language in a way that doesn't scare us too much. Unfortunately this sometimes means that they provide us with ambiguous information which means we walk out of their office with more questions and worries than we walked in with.

    Urgent referral pathways are generally used when someone has signs and symptoms that can suggest cancer, but a lot of the time these symptoms are caused by other conditions. However it is important to ensure that those who do have a cancer are diagnosed and treated as quickly as possible.

    I wish you all the best for your upcoming colonoscopy and whatever the result, there is plenty of support available here should you need it.

    Rich. 

  • Thanks for the reply but as usual when I try to explain anything I'm clear as mud!

    It's not my GP I'm referring to but my colorectal surgeon that I've been seeing for the last year. My urgent referral from my GP was last year to him.

    He has decided after a year of telling me the bleeding is haemorrhoids to give me colonoscopy himself as I'm now anaemic. 

    If I'd just been referred I don't think I'd be as worried, but he definitely seemed concerned he'd missed something (his words) when I met him yesterday and couldn't look me in the eye.

     

  • I’m sorry to hear that, no wonder you’re so worried.

    I’m not convinced I’ll be able to make you feel any less anxious, but whatever results you get you can find plenty of support, here and elsewhere.

    best wishes