Hello Luc50,

I'm in a similar boat.  I am 52.  Hadn't had a period for 18 months, then had bleeding.  Went for an ultrasound and also had a hysteroscopy at the same appointment.  The ultrasound detected the thickness of my uterine lining was at 8mm.  The hysteroscopy showed fibroids.  They took a biopsy and I was told I would get the results in 1-2 weeks time.  It's 2 weeks today and after ringing I was told they have a backlog of typing and so no letter has gone out and they can't give me any information as yet.  My bleeding stopped just under a week ago so I'm pleased about that but the waiting game is tough.  Without having the bleeding, I have been able to forget about things a bit but on the whole have had a pretty rubbish few first weeks with dark thoughts and lots of crying.  I'm now trying to carry on with a positive attitude as there's not much I can do until I get some results.  It is very worrying but in the meantime I keep trying to keep myself informed so that when I get to talk to someone medical, I will at least understand what they're talking about.  I have also started to eat better and tried to lose weight - have lost half a stone in the last two weeks - as I understand that oestrogen excess can be caused by being overweight.  Have you had a hysteroscopy?  Not a pleasant experience!  If you haven't yet, and you have to have one, I only read after having had mine that it helps to take a couple of paracetemol before you have it!  And make sure you have someone who can drive you home afterwards!  I'm presuming that if my biopsy shows that it's got abnormal cells, then I'll be heading for a hysterectomy but if they're not abnormal, it'll be hormone treatment first.  Seems like you've had a different suggestion as to what happens next with your treatment but I would have thought they'd have to see the results of your biopsy before recommending a hysterectomy.  Or maybe they mean a hysteroscopy (the camera) first rather than a hysterectomy?  Anyway, I wish you all the best and to hear from you again.:)

Ho ladies.

I've been down this route and believe me the waiting is by far the worst. Once you know what you’re dealing with, whatever that is, it is much easier. I was diagnosed with endometrial cancer in April 2018, had a hysterectomy, further surgery for removal of lymph nodes and three sessions of internal radiotherapy. I got my all clear in April of this year and am on regular checks now. 

Just to say if you have  any questions now or in the future just ask and I’ll be happy to answer them based on my experience.

Sending a virtual squeeze from my hand to yours.

Sundial

Keep in touch Murf.

Yes, will do. You too - looks like we're in a similar position.  Hope we get referred soon.  Take care x

How did you get on with speaking to Doctors?  Mine making a referral to see gynaecologist to get examined.  So, just waiting now for a date.  Thankfully bleeding eased off a bit today.  How are you feeling? 
Keep in touch. x

Hi

i wonder if any of you can help and guide me, I was 33 when being told I was going through my menopausal and it was the end of my world as I wanted a family so bad I had ivf in the end and got my bundle of joy and accepted goung through menopause after all these years. I had a bleed last year which was spotting if you like. Then was told it was normal till this year I had a massive bleed in March and again now I actually feel lost as I feel like they are just throbbing me off saying there's nothing wrong when this isn't normal for me can your body bleed again or is there something wrong. I'm 38 now nearly 39 and I feel so alone 

Hi Murf,

Got on fine with doc. Referred to hospital. Gynaecology phoned today and have appointment on 26th May. Wish it was sooner. No more bleeding.

How are you doing? 

Hi 

sorry for jumping in here.

I am 54 stopped periods 3 years ago. 4 weeks ago had a hysteroscopy done as the lining of my womb was 11 and they found a polyp. They took a biopsy. Today I got a phone call to say I have to go see the Dr tom at the hospital. I am now pretty worried that I am going to be told I have Cancer. Has anyone else been told to go the hospital next day? And what was outcome? Thanks for reading. 

Hi Flo25, 

Great to hear from you.  Glad your bleeding stopped.  Mine too thankfully.  Good you got appointment, it's an axious wait though isn't it.  I've not got a date through yet, but I did get a cancellation for an ultrasound scan today!  The nurse said she could see some fibroids (which I had no idea I had) and that my ovaries looked fine, which is good.  Not sure whether last week's bleeding was the fibroids though?, so still no clearer really.  Odd that fibroids should be causing problems now, as info on internet suggests that they normally shrink during menopause due to lower estrogen levels.  Will have to wait til see the consultant.  Did you have/have you got any other symptoms other than the bleeding?  My abdomen feels odd... not painful, but bloated and uncomfortable, and some lower back ache.  
Hope we both get some answers soon.  Take care X

Hi Hairdresserstar,

Sorry can't help with your question, but understand your worry due to speed of being asked to go to hospital. I hope it's not to receive the news we all fear, but the positive take is that, if it should be cancer, the sooner it's diagnosed the better the outcome. Have you got someone to go with you for support?  Thinking of you... let us know how you get on. X
 

Hi

thank you for replying. I have been through open heart surgery for a heart valve replacement but I am more worried about tomorrow! Yes my husband will be with me. I think I have thought of every scenario I will be glad when tomorrow comes and this worrying will be over at least I will know one way or another will let you know x

Hope you get on okay today. Thinking if you x

Hope you get on okay today. Thinking if you x