Hello Ali

welcome to the forum. 

The waiting is the worst isn’t it? You have come to the right place however. I’ve recently been in your shoes and this site has been my life saver. What I learnt is to keep busy. Do you have any hobbies or interests to occupy your mind? I found even something as mundane as cleaning the house was something to occupy myself until my appointment date arrived. 

What I also learnt was to stay away from Dr Google! This will only make you panic more! If you’re stressed or anxious then come to this site,everyone here is lovely and helpful and we all know how it feels to wait. Feel free to message me if you want a chat or are worried. 

I hope all goes well in your appointment. Do keep us updated. 

Take care 

Marie xxx

Thanks all for your lovely words my letter also says suspected cancer I’m petrified I even texted my husband as I was crying saying what if I never see you or the kids again , i lituslly feel sick with worry I carnt eat I carnt function I jist keep crying , yes I have a hobby crocheting I used to be addicted to it but now I carnt even pick my hook up , I’m having so many panicked attacks , I just don’t no how to cope with all this , I don’t even no wether it is cancer but if I’m like this now how will I be if I get told it is

Oh sweetheart I know exactly how you feel. It’s so hard trying to function whilst we have this worry on our minds. I won’t tell you not to worry because you will,it’s perfectly normal to do so. Take it one day at a time,get today out of the way and deal with tomorrow when it arrives. With every day that passes you’ll be a day closer to your appointment. 

This group is a godsend. The ladies and gents on here have been such a comfort to me and they all have a wealth of knowledge and advice. 

It’s normal to cry and panic. It’s the not knowing and the what ifs that are the worst. You’ll have good days and bad days in the run up to the appointment. When I was low or having a bad day this site would always pick me up xxx

Oh sweetheart I know exactly how you feel. It’s so hard trying to function whilst we have this worry on our minds. I won’t tell you not to worry because you will,it’s perfectly normal to do so. Take it one day at a time,get today out of the way and deal with tomorrow when it arrives. With every day that passes you’ll be a day closer to your appointment. 

This group is a godsend. The ladies and gents on here have been such a comfort to me and they all have a wealth of knowledge and advice. 

It’s normal to cry and panic. It’s the not knowing and the what ifs that are the worst. You’ll have good days and bad days in the run up to the appointment. When I was low or having a bad day this site would always pick me up xxx