Dismissed during referral - lymphoma

Hi all, 

I wanted to come on here for some advice. I noticed a lump in my neck just under my jaw weeks ago and finally went to get it checked. I hadn’t realised many of my symptoms including fatigue (which I’d put down to work), itchy skin, fevers etc were attributed to potentially lymphoma until the doctor put me on a 2WW referral to Haematology. 

The doctor noted it was a 3cm lymph node with no reasonable explanation and given the rest of my symptoms that was the best action. When I attended my referral appointment from the get go it was completely dismissive. I was told by the clinician I was too young to be worried about cancer (I’m 24 for context), my bloods were normal and he couldn’t even feel the lump (which is still there). I was essentially made to feel as though me worrying about it being cancer was making my symptoms show, even though it was the doctor who initially mentioned this possibility! 

I’m just looking for advice on where to go from here, he essentially said he would do the ultrasound “to make me happy” and “show me nothing was there”. 

I’ve just been made to feel like I’m making it up and I’m at a loss! 

  • Hello Elmurray02,

    I'm sorry about the experience you had with your doctor and how it's made you feel. While you may be young, it's important that you feel heard and informed when it comes to your symptoms so it's a shame you feel that didn't happen. Though it is good to hear that these symptoms will be investigated and I hope this gives you peace of mind in some way. If you'd like to read about the ultrasound scan, you can on our website.

    Fingers crossed your next appointment is a better experience and let us know how it goes.

    Best wishes,

    Moderator Anastasia