Anxiety, worry, scared.

Hi everyone.

I have recently had a referral to the breast clinic as I found a lump in my left breast.   The lump is painful to the touch, does this mean it’s cancerous? I’m really scared because my family has a history of cancer, both my parents died of cancer and my brother is going through cancer and both my grandmother‘s died of cancer.

The doctor could feel the lump straight away and made the urgent referral. I understood that I would be seen within two weeks, but my appointment has come through for 14th of August, which is almost a month after my referral. I can’t stand the waiting and not knowing what is happening, I have a holiday booked for early September which has been planned for over a year.  If I have to cancel, I want to know as soon as possible to get the ball rolling if there is something serious.

What would be the possibility of getting seen before the clinic date? In reality I would guess not very high but is it worth me enquiring at the clinic and asking for cancellations or any short notice appointment?  I’m just in a state wondering what to do, my anxiety is through the roof and I can’t think of anything else at the moment.  

  • Hi GolfAnn,

    A very warm welcome to the forum.

    I am so sorry to hear of the family history to breast cancer. It must have been very hard to lose so many family members to this disease. I do have some idea of how worried you are feeling, because I was in a similar position 16 years ago. A lot of people expect to be seen within 2 weeks, but this seldom happens. You will usually get your appointment within 2 weeks, but the actual appointment may well be in advance of this. This waiting period is always an anxious time. Try to avoid turning to google, as much of the information is poorly researched, out of date and aimed at the more spectacular cases, which won't give you any answers and will only serve to scare you further.

    You do not say what age you are, but if you need a biopsy, it can take a further 2-3 weeks to get your results. Make sure to mention to the consultant at your first appointment, that you have a holiday booked and follow any advice given. Chances are that you will still be able to go away. If you want to get a cancellation, the best way to do this is to phone your consultant's secretary and ask to be put on the cancellation list, as there is always a chance that one will come up.

    With regard to the pain you are feeling, it is unusual to have pain associated with breast cancer, but sadly, not impossible. I sincerely hope that you manage to get an earlier appointment and that nothing untoward is found. It is a fact that not all lumps are cancerous and only 20% of those who visit the breast clinic will get a cancer diagnosis. Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • Thank you for your kind reply.  I am 67.  I have had scares like this before particularly bad one a few years ago where I had a marker inserted and a vacuum suction which resulted in a good result. I was on an annual recall for five years. I just feel so much more anxious about it this time x