Red flag gynae NI

Hey, This is my first time posting here so hoping I do it right. Just looking for advice and a place to vent I guess. I was red flagged to gynae almost 3 weeks ago now, cervical, radiology declined to see my and also referred me directly to gynae. Today I rang the outpatients line to be told it could be another 10-12 weeks, anyone else experiencing this atm? I am a nervous wreck atm. I have small children and my head is all over the place.

Just wondering has anyone else waited this long? Thanks