Breast lump at only 27

So two weeks ago I found a lump on the top of my right breast. I thought it was due to my period (as it was due next day) i waited a week and still lump was present. I spoke to my husband, he said to wait until next week if still there then doctors, Because he’s man not really familiar with female breast, I was kinda dismissive of his opinion and decided to ask a work friend (nurse is my background, so she was a mature nurse, so has seen a lot in her time) she said she felt a lump too and it could be potentially a blocked milk duct, however advised all lumps should be checked by doctor. That night I google how to unblock a milk duct and tried to massage the area as I was doing this I noticed bloody clear discharge from nipple. In which  I decided to contact doctor the next day. I was seen that day and he described the lump as ‘discrete lump with mild skin tethering” and referred me on the 2ww breast clinic. No nipple leakage now but skin keeps peeling around area making it itchy so I have to put Vaseline around it. I am so worried but at the same time I am like I can’t show because I am just overacting, I keep checking to see if it might of disappeared and I feel like my husband is judging me for it. And then the appointment itself I feel terrible because if it’s nothing then I’ve just wasted an appointment for someone who actually needed it. I just feel so guilty as well as worried if it is something. 

  • Hello Eagleberry

    I'm sorry to hear that you've had some concerns about your breast health after recently finding a lump and noticing some discharge. You did exactly the right thing in seeing your GP and it's good to hear that you have now been referred to the breast team for further examination. 

    We know that for many people, this period of waiting and uncertainty can be difficult. It's understandable that you're feeling worried, but it might help to keep in mind that the majority of people seen at specialist breast clinics do not go on to be diagnosed with cancer. Easy for me to say, but try to remain positive if you can, as worrying won't change the outcome. 

    You mention that your breast is sore and that there's been some skin peeling. It can be tempting to keep checking to see if the lump has disappeared or changed further but sometimes this can cause irritation so if you can try to leave it alone for the moment, it may also help with the anxiety that you're having. 

    I don't know how long you may have to wait for an appointment but if it would help to talk through your concerns with one of our specialist nurses, you're most welcome to give them a call. I know they will be happy to listen and offer any advice, information and support they can. They're available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    Keep in touch Eagleberry and let us know how you get on. We're here for you. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator