Oh goodness you’ve been through it haven’t you. Sounds very similar to me, whole saga been going on for three years with cysts, lumps, abscesses etc. I’ve had three biopsies, all benign but surgeon wanted this abscess out which turned out to be a lump so awaiting results on that. The lumpectomy itself was fine but feeling absolutely exhausted since the operation three days ago. I’m taking all the time I need to recover and off work now for 2 weeks. 

These last 5 months have been absolutely horrific. I’ve lost both my grandparents, a friend passed away and my son is now disabled. I can’t imagine what it’s like losing your mum, especially at a time like this so please do look after yourself and take all the time you need to recover. I know for me it’s the mental exhaustion as well as the physical. Be very kind and gentle to yourself. The very best of luck with your journey x

1. Awaiting results is just the worst thing!  It should feel easier after that. Trying to distract yourself can be a good thing, you could think about medication and /or try contacting the nurse you found so helpful 
2. You mentioned another person at work who seems to have returned to work relatively early. I wouldn't compare herself to you - her circumstances may be quite different to yours and something else you find easy she might find really difficult.

Good luck!

Oh my  I am so sorry you have had some awful times. I had my op on the 16th. Had a drain and Pico dressing. Able to do alot more now. Got my results Friday. Fingers crossed everything ok. It is more the mental exhaustion and painful if I do too much. 

Lots of luck and hugs for your recovery.