Lumpectomy just over a week ago

Hi i have recently had a lumpectomy. I was adamant it was a cyst as always suffered with cysts and had them drained. This time the consultant said it was a cyst but the radiographer on ultrasound said it was a mass so this really was a shock. The next minute we were in a room talking to the McMillan Nurse, who was amazing. I have just been so low about everything and awaiting results from lumpectomy. This has changed my whole perspective about working as a Nursing Associate as I recently qualified. Then I moved house and job and then my mum, who was my best friend  passed away. Just feel I can't return to my current role, but another lady at my work had a similar procedure and she was back at work within 4 weeks. 

I am trying to stay positive but I just feel worried about the next steps.

Just can't talk to people in my family. Thank you..

Parents
    1. Awaiting results is just the worst thing!  It should feel easier after that. Trying to distract yourself can be a good thing, you could think about medication and /or try contacting the nurse you found so helpful 
    2. You mentioned another person at work who seems to have returned to work relatively early. I wouldn't compare herself to you - her circumstances may be quite different to yours and something else you find easy she might find really difficult.

    Good luck!

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    1. Awaiting results is just the worst thing!  It should feel easier after that. Trying to distract yourself can be a good thing, you could think about medication and /or try contacting the nurse you found so helpful 
    2. You mentioned another person at work who seems to have returned to work relatively early. I wouldn't compare herself to you - her circumstances may be quite different to yours and something else you find easy she might find really difficult.

    Good luck!

Children