Hi Bells1723, 

I understand your worry, I am currently in a very similar situation with changes to my current moles and news ones appearing and growing quickly. I had an appointment yesterday and now waiting for a Urgent Dermatology referral, been told it is going to be 2-4 weeks for an appointment. Its really hard for it not to consume your every thought. My husband and family are telling me not to worry and that they are sure its fine, I know they are trying to comfort me, however I am worrying and it is taking over all my thoughts.

Saying it outload and allowing myself to say that yes I am worried is helping me. 

I hope your appointment went well and you have managed to get your mind put at ease.

Hi BecIC, 

Thanks for replying, and I’m sorry to hear you’re going through a stressful time too. Like you say, it can be so consuming and exhausting because of that. The fear of the unknown is the worst thing. 

I spend hours just googling, the worst thing to do I know. But I just simply want to know if my exact kind of mole is ‘normal’ or ‘common’ but every thing I google or any one I speak to can’t give a definitive answer (of course) but that in itself makes me more nervous. 

my GP reassured me that the moles I can’t see on my back are fine but the one on my breast she immediately and aged about and took a number of photos with her Dermascope and sent them off to see if I need a referral. She initially wasn’t sure if I would need one but then quickly ended the appt with “I’ll contact you in a week to discuss WHEN you’ll be seen” which was not reassuring at all!  

I can see the images she took on the NHS App and I’m obsessed with looking at it, it’s gross but amazing too.  

Talking is super helpful and I’m glad you’ve recognised that too. It’s so hard not to let it consume you but be reassured (as I’m telling myself too) that there are many types of moles, that can grow anywhere at different speeds. Every single person is different. I hope you can find ways to get through the next few weeks. You got this!! X

Hi BecIC, 

Thanks for replying, and I’m sorry to hear you’re going through a stressful time too. Like you say, it can be so consuming and exhausting because of that. The fear of the unknown is the worst thing. 

I spend hours just googling, the worst thing to do I know. But I just simply want to know if my exact kind of mole is ‘normal’ or ‘common’ but every thing I google or any one I speak to can’t give a definitive answer (of course) but that in itself makes me more nervous. 

my GP reassured me that the moles I can’t see on my back are fine but the one on my breast she immediately and aged about and took a number of photos with her Dermascope and sent them off to see if I need a referral. She initially wasn’t sure if I would need one but then quickly ended the appt with “I’ll contact you in a week to discuss WHEN you’ll be seen” which was not reassuring at all!  

I can see the images she took on the NHS App and I’m obsessed with looking at it, it’s gross but amazing too.  

Talking is super helpful and I’m glad you’ve recognised that too. It’s so hard not to let it consume you but be reassured (as I’m telling myself too) that there are many types of moles, that can grow anywhere at different speeds. Every single person is different. I hope you can find ways to get through the next few weeks. You got this!! X