2 week urgent referral - Breast

I have found a small lump in breast and GP sent me for 2 week urgent referral.  I am now in a waiting game for the appointment but I am so worried and it seems to have taken over my thoughts and struggling go not just curl up and cry.

how do people cope, I have told my husband but will not tell anyone else until I know more. 

sorry about posting but just wanted some where to ask what I should expect on the appointment, will they tell me anything in the appointment or will it be more waiting.

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  • I had my results today and it’s benign! I’m very relieved and just want to say to everyone here that it’s not always bad news but it’s hard not to assume it is. If you find it very difficult ask your GP to prescribe a short term anxiety relief. The support on this forum is amazing and you’ll always find someone to answer your questions or listen to your worries. I hope your result is ok JoJoBlue a lot of women have gone down this path and many are ok so keep busy and be positive xx

  • That is great news.

    I have been reading posts and agree it has been very helpful and today focussed on work which really helped me keep my mind going down a negative spin.

  • Hi JoJoBlue,

    A very warm welcome to our forum, although I'm sorry to hear why you're here.

    I believe that Tongvb has given you an accurate account of what to expect at your appointment. Don't worry about the "2 week urgent appointment". This is normal, where there is any suspicion that it could be breast cancer. The wait to be seen is always a worrying time and we can become over emotional during the wait. Don't worry about crying, as this is a good stress reliever. Most people don't tell anyone, other than their partner, until they know what the results are. If you need a biopsy, which many of us do, you may have to wait another 1-2 weeks to be told anything.

    Staff at these clinics are usually very understanding and helpful. Of all the people who attend the clinic, 80% will get a benign diagnosis. I sincerely hope that nothing untoward is found during your consultation. Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

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  • Hi JoJoBlue,

    A very warm welcome to our forum, although I'm sorry to hear why you're here.

    I believe that Tongvb has given you an accurate account of what to expect at your appointment. Don't worry about the "2 week urgent appointment". This is normal, where there is any suspicion that it could be breast cancer. The wait to be seen is always a worrying time and we can become over emotional during the wait. Don't worry about crying, as this is a good stress reliever. Most people don't tell anyone, other than their partner, until they know what the results are. If you need a biopsy, which many of us do, you may have to wait another 1-2 weeks to be told anything.

    Staff at these clinics are usually very understanding and helpful. Of all the people who attend the clinic, 80% will get a benign diagnosis. I sincerely hope that nothing untoward is found during your consultation. Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

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