I'm told the MDT should be discussing me today as they have my biopsies and 2 scan results.

The cancer nurse offered to call me later today with an update post- meeting.

I know lots of people say this waiting is the hardest part and it gets easier, mentally, once you have a plan. But I'm terrified what they'll tell me. Wish me luck.

James4000 hi James I wish you all the luck in the world  I was thinking maybe this is the hardest waiting to hear your results and what can be done for you as I know it will be for me. I’m still waiting for a scan but it’s still in the 2 eeek pathway  please keep us informed  lots of love  x

The rectum and intestinal tract generally are very blood rich so small tears can produce a lot of volume of blood. My brother was passing a lot of blood, went to a&e, but it was a fissure and hemorhoids. What you're going through, tango, is really scary and symptoms should be reported and examined. I'm just saying that it can appear a lot worse because bleeding is so scary from there, especially when you have a tumour. I hope you find that it is a benign tumour when the biopsies come back. It's really hard what you are all going through. Though I wish you were all healthy and not going through this I'm glad you've got each others' support.

Lyns/21 thank you for your reply  I was told my tumour is a malignant one so I’m so hoping it’s treatable when every thing comes together biopsies and scans it’s all a waiting game x

Eastendgirl I don’t seem to have a nurse and I don’t know who is in charge of my case so I feel a bit in limbo at the moment. Maybe when I have the scan next week I will know who is in charge of my case I don’t have any one at the mo.  Xx

It seems like you have been waiting a long time and if you think the bleeding has got worse you should let them know ,especially as you still have another week to go ,they won't mind at all if you ask their expert advice in fact they'd rather you did .

A small amount of blood in water or on toilet bowl/tissue can look alarming,  I agree with you.. many years ago I had an impacted bowel..the bathroom looked as though a murder had been committed from the blood splatter.. absolutely terrifying..

As you say a fissure/ internal and external haemorrhoids when they bleed can be very alarming..

Lots of care, support and understanding here which is vital for us all..

Okay...in that case please contact your G.P  practice who will have all the details of your diagnosis.. they will be able to offer support and advice.. if you haven't been assigned a nurse as yet then your practice will have N.P or ANP who may not specifically trained in cancer care but they are Nurses ..

( NP :  Nurse Practitioner  ANP : advanced)

Eastendgirl thank you for your reply I guess if I need advise then your right it would have to be my gp I just seem to be having things done at different places  my colonoscopy was at a clinic not too far away from me  then I was told my scan would be at one hospital then that was changed to another hospital so every thing just seems here and there at the moment  xx

Seems to be the case across the UK  at the moment.. my sista has a 2.5 hour journey for her treatment ♀️. and I know she's not the only one.. your G.P practice will have the info needed to put you in touch with the Oncologist team  x

If you have a good GP it's great to keep them on board throughout care if it's cancer because having a medical advocate is priceless. It can feel like too many cooks but being able to discuss things outwith consultant's immediate teams can help you feel more heard, they can be a sounding board for what you need to say during appointments with the consultant and if you have questions before you're assigned a Macmillan nurse they can liaise with the hospital. Increased bleeding should definitely be discussed, you could become anaemic etc. any change in symptoms needs to be reported even if the professionals just reassure you it's worth them knowing. I would never replace a doctor's advice with anything said online but you can get supplementary info about what other people experience to help gauge what you might have to expect and how to handle living with conditions.

Every time my partner engages with any of the medical professionals caring for him they ask about anything new and ongoing. It isn't worth carrying it alone.

I agree with you IF you are fortunate enough to have a good G.P practice...

Unfortunately the experience of 2 family members,  in different parts of the UK,  both with different cancer... have received neither care or support from their individual practice.. seems to be far more a case of.. you've been referred,  had a diagnosis,  treatment plan and now it's up to the MDT who has specialist knowledge of your case and cancer...

I sincerely hope this in not the case for anyone here who needs and deserves the reassurance from the G.P 

I agree with you IF you are fortunate enough to have a good G.P practice...

Unfortunately the experience of 2 family members,  in different parts of the UK,  both with different cancer... have received neither care or support from their individual practice.. seems to be far more a case of.. you've been referred,  had a diagnosis,  treatment plan and now it's up to the MDT who has specialist knowledge of your case and cancer...

I sincerely hope this in not the case for anyone here who needs and deserves the reassurance from the G.P