Hope you don't think I'm crazy. I'm getting my kidneys looked at because of back pain (long story).
But I have never told the doctor about this thing that's been going on at the same time.
For several months, orgasm has become increasingly painful in a very specific way. It feels like a childbirth contraction along the bikini line, down along the lower abdomen and curving up to and along my hips. It's pretty intense and lasts 30-90 seconds, and aches for a while after.
I don't know that it's related, but the timing is close. I've used every search term I can think of and nothing has come up.
Maybe the collective wisdom of the group? I would be so grateful.