Mole biopsy wait

I flagged a dubious mole that seems to have changed (always been weird) to my GP before Christmas. Refered for dermoscope images, then saw a dermatologist earlier this month. Yesterday they removed it and have sent it for biopsy. 

I know, most of the time, there is nothing too wrong. But I am anxious as hell. Not helped by the fact that I won't get a response any time soon as they said it can take between 6 and 12 weeks for a result at the moment! 

I'm due back to work from mat leave soon (baby is 6 months old). I am wondering if it might be wise to ask work if I can have some SPL after a short time back (you have to give 8 weeks notice). It won't be paid. But I am really not holding up well mentally. And, if there is something wrong I want to try and save the paid leave I am allowed for as long as possible.

Parents
  • Hi Mollie,

    I know how anxious it is to wait for results - it's the worst part of all this as your mind runs away with you. Sadly the waiting time for results has got longer since Covid so you have to find a way to distract yourself when anxiety starts to pile in. While you are on Maternity Leave try & find some 'me' time to try meditation or Mindfulness (lots on YouTube) or just a good walk in the fresh air & countryside with baby helps.

    I can't help with your question about asking for SPL when you return to work. It's certainly something to consider if you won't get the results for a few weeks once back at work. Have a word with your supervisor or HR now, before you return, so they are aware of your situation as early as possible.

    Hopefully your mole wasn't malignant - 75% of patients referred to Dermatology find their mole was benign or dysplastic (precancerous) so the odds are good that it may all be fine. If it was malignant, the odds are good that it was caught quickly and can be treated successfully.

    Good luck and please let us know how you get on,

    Angie (Stage 3 melanoma patient since 2009)

Reply Children
No Data