Can't stop crying

Breast clinic appointment last Friday: 2x mammograms, ultrasound, 6x biopsies. Mammograms found nothing. I insisted and ultrasound found 2x 1cm lumps. I was told they are 95% sure it is breast cancer but I have to wait 2 weeks for results! I can't stop crying and my mind keeps catastrophising. I amnot sure they should have told me without being 100% as I can't do anything until they know. I am in despair.

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  • Hi TCP1903,

    A very warm welcome to our forum.

    I am so sorry that you find yourself in this unenviable situation. Mammograms can occasionally miss some types of cancer, so I am glad to hear that you insisted on the ultrasound. Don't worry about crying so much - releasing those tears is a great way of reducing stress. This is possibly the most worrying time of a cancer journey. At this stage, we all give rein to our over-active imaginations and this can take us to some very dark places. Fortunately, this is seldom as bleak as it seems. Irrespective of the outcome, you will feel better once you know exactly what you are dealing with.

    Are you aware that not all lumps are cancerous? Many turn out to be benign cysts or due to fibrous or hormonal changes. In fact, 80% of all the people who attend the breast clinic, don't get a cancer diagnosis. I have had 2 bouts of breast cancer and on both occasions, I was told at my first appointments, that they were likely cancer. This gives us a little more time to come to terms with a possible cancer diagnosis, rather than facing it head on, when we attend for our results. Have you got an appointment date for your results, or did they say how long they might be?

    I sincerely hope that nothing untoward is found.

    Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • They didn't give me an appointment date. They just said '2 weeks'.

    Xx

  • How long have you been waiting so far? 

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