Further uncertainty after breast clinic appointment

Hi all. I’ve been looking over this forum for the last 8 months due to a scare in January and have found myself back again. 

I found a lump in 6 weeks ago. Saw GP 2 weeks ago and put on 2ww referral. Saw consultant today who felt ‘abnormality’. Had an ultrasound as I’m just over a week until I’m 40. The doctor found 2 areas of concern and suspicious areas. Was sent for mammogram. Back into ultrasound and then core biopsies. Saw consultant again after that. He said there was 2 areas of concern and they need to have a look under the microscope to see if benign or malignant. After reading lots of posts on here, I was given the impression that if they did suspect cancer then the doctors would say before receiving the results but I asked them, if they thought a patient had cancer would they tell them before the results and I was told no they wouldn’t. He did say we need to get the results and take it from there. 

I couldn’t help but feel his manner had changed from very matter of fact when I first arrived at the clinic to showing empathy at the meeting before I left. Am I reading into things too much?

has anyone had a similar experience and it’s turned out to be malignant and viva versa, also benign? 

I will receive a call on Thursday next week (the day before my 40th birthday) with the results. If it is malignant would it be likely to be in touch with me earlier? 

Sorry for the multiple questions. Heads spinning. 

thanks xx

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  • Hi lofty 

    sorry you are here , some consultants give indications others don’t there is no way of 100 percent knowing until results are back , I was told mine looked suspicious and a week later it was confirmed my best friend had BC same time as me but she wasn’t told that anything was suspicious and also had a diagnosis xx good luck and have a great birthday xx 

  • Sorry to hear that  Yhankyou. It is definitely the wait that’s hard. Last time round it all felt more positive and they said we’re confident it’s not anything sinister and we’re doing the biopsy to confirm this. This time is different and it didn’t feel that way. They even talked about malignancy and cancer this time. They did say the probability is its benign but as it looks suspicious and there’s a chance of malignancy they need to look at it under the microscope. 
    last time they also said we think it’s a hardened cyst or fibroadenoma, so I said this and they said possibly but let’s get your results and take it from there.

    I know the feeling I have may not mean anything but the way they were treating me was very different from entering the clinic to leaving and during the second ultrasound the doctor changed the picture to infrared. This definitely didn’t happen first time round. Does anyone know what this is for? There was lots of red over the picture. 

    thankyoi xx

  • Lofty 

    yes that wait for me was horrendous, probably the worst part of my journey once I knew it was sort of ok let’s get rid of this , I’m now one year on and doing absolutely amazing it wasn’t that bad in all honestly , the only thing was I felt like I was on stop no holidays ect I had my first annual check in July all ckear let’s hope it stays this way xx 

    good luck when do you get results loveky ? 

  • Hi Lara. I’ve seen quite a few of you lovely people say how once you got your actual diagnosis, although it wasn’t the answer you wanted, you still felt better (i hope you know what I mean). 

    I get my results on 26th. I did call the clinic yesterday as a friend persuaded me. I came away feeling worse than when I went in with no answers to any questions I had. Such as what was actually seen on the ultrasound and mammogram. I was met with 2 areas of concern and if I asked questions it was shrugs of the shoulders and let’s see when we get the biopsy results. They did say they were unsure if benign or malignant but probably benign. 

    The nurse couldn’t tell me what was seen but did tell me as they’d booked a telephone call on 26th they must be more towards benign. She said they do still get malignancies even though they think benign and in that case I would get a call to ask me to come in. 

    it has helped and last night I slept better. So glad you’ve been given the all clear. You’ve smashed it Lara

  • Lofty 

    that’s very good news if they are looking towards benign for you I’m happy to hear this for you xx 

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