Making an appointment

Hi,

I have had a lump/mass on my upper right abdomen just to the left on my rib for like a year and a half. I haven’t gone to the doctor as I’m so scared that I’m going to be told it’s cancer and then how my life will all change etc, and it would probably ben too late to do anything now anyways. I feel like i’ve been in denial. How can I get the courage to make an appointment as I am so concerned but at the same time just too scared to go to the doctor as scared they’ll tell me i have cancer.

Thank you,

Sophie.

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  • I agree with Jenny.

    Just to add something - a doctor said to me last week something that higher up doctors should listen to, in my opinion. I may have it the wrong way round, but it was either

    - we don't know anything until we know something

    or

    - until we know something, we don't know anything.

  • That's a really good thing for them to say and its very true ,I remember getting the fone call from my GP surgery it wasn't a Doctor it was an advanced nurse and he did say I've already set the ball rolling for an urgent  referral because your test results make us suspect Ovarian cancer ,I never heard anything else I just burst out crying and sobbing and  rang my hubby at work ,thankfully after more tests it showed something much less serious .

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  • That's a really good thing for them to say and its very true ,I remember getting the fone call from my GP surgery it wasn't a Doctor it was an advanced nurse and he did say I've already set the ball rolling for an urgent  referral because your test results make us suspect Ovarian cancer ,I never heard anything else I just burst out crying and sobbing and  rang my hubby at work ,thankfully after more tests it showed something much less serious .

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