Sorry you find yourself here.

They won’t delay surgery, but you might have further tests or treatment after initial biopsy results before you have the surgery.

For example mine went 14 Feb GP, 07 Mar consultant & core biopsies, 23 Mar core biopsy results, and punch biopsy, 30 Mar MRI, 11 April punch biopsy result and offered provisional surgery date, 13 April MRI result, mag seeds in and mag trace injection, 17 Apr surgery.

Sending you a hug x

Thanks for your replies everyone. Much appreciated.  I will wait and see what they have planned for me on Tues.  

love to all x 

Thank you jolamine x

Jacs 

how are you feeling xx 

I’m feeling ok.  I told my parents yesterday Altho after sitting for an hour I couldn’t do it face to face. It was too hard after all they been through and going through with my sister so I went home and done it via text.  My mam did say she was pleased I did it that way.  Obv they are really upset but I’ve told them I will be ok and just to focus on my sister as she needs more support than me at the moment.  

Also told my son, but didn’t go into too much detail as he’s in the army so he’s away from home all the time so didn’t want to worry him too much x

Jacksonjet 

That’s a weight lifted for you , I done exactly the same told my family played it right down so that they knew but only told them the positives and that it was early stages ect which it was and that I was gunna be ok and I was I walked that Mile with my head tall Lippy on smiling I wasn’t giving in to pj days and it worked for me I didn’t miss a single outing with friends xx you can do it too xx. 

Jackson 

the only thing that got me where my family got concerned is that my lymph nodes were clear on scans ect but after operation I had a teeny trace in one node so then had to have another operation removing all nodes , this scared them cause I had played it down , so it bit me on backside a bit , but after that operation all lymph nodes taken they come back clear panick over xx 

Yeah I’ve not mentioned about nodes to them. Obv my scan showed nothing but as you said, could be different during surgery. So will play that from there.   It has def been a huge weight off my shoulders telling them as that was the only thing I was worried about. So going to leave them a day or 2, to process it all and then go see them again.

I am def not giving in to pjs days haha .  I will be going on as normal as best I can.  Xx

Jacks 

the right mindset you will fly it I promise xx 

Thankyou xx

Hi Jacksonjet,

I am glad to hear that you have told the family. That should be a big weight lifted off your shoulders. It is always better that they hear this news from you and not mistakenly from others. Family can also feel hurt and upset if they don't hear early on, as they naturally want to support you along your journey. My son was also in the army when I broke the news of my second bout of breast cancer, but he dealt with it well. 

Do you have your treatment plan yet or do you know when you are due to have surgery? I sincerely hope that it all goes well for you and that you get good news about your sister's treatment too.

Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Hi Jacksonjet,

I am glad to hear that you have told the family. That should be a big weight lifted off your shoulders. It is always better that they hear this news from you and not mistakenly from others. Family can also feel hurt and upset if they don't hear early on, as they naturally want to support you along your journey. My son was also in the army when I broke the news of my second bout of breast cancer, but he dealt with it well. 

Do you have your treatment plan yet or do you know when you are due to have surgery? I sincerely hope that it all goes well for you and that you get good news about your sister's treatment too.

Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Thankyou jolamine

i believe their meetings to go through results are on Thursdays , so they will check MRI scans n hopefully receptor results are back too, so I’m hoping I will hear something by monday x 

Hi Jacksonjet,

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Thankyou x