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i had a lunpectomy as a first operation then had a second operation fully auxiliary nodes removed , I like rumple said had a drain on the 2 nd operation , to be honest on both operations nothing changed only that I couldn’t drive but there wasn’t a day where I had to stay in bed or anything the worst thing for me was I had to wash my hair over the bath silly I no but that was the worst thing for me it’s easy peasy you will be great I’m sure , good luck with everything and stay here for support if you need it we are all here for you love Lara xxx

Hi , It depends what surgery you have . 18 yrs ago I had a wide local excision and lymph node sampling . I was in hospital overnight and just took Paracetamol for a few days . My 7 year old sat in the waiting room when I had my diagnosis ( Single parent and no one offered to either come with me or look after him or my other son aged 12. No family nearby , but my sister travelled 5.30 hours to stay with me and my ex reluctantly had the boys ( I know that’s not an option for you) Physically I was fine . 
Wait to see what you are facing first then see if any friends can form a tag team to all do a little bit to help you out. I wish you all the very best and really hope you don’t have to go down this road. Xx

Hi , It depends what surgery you have . 18 yrs ago I had a wide local excision and lymph node sampling . I was in hospital overnight and just took Paracetamol for a few days . My 7 year old sat in the waiting room when I had my diagnosis ( Single parent and no one offered to either come with me or look after him or my other son aged 12. No family nearby , but my sister travelled 5.30 hours to stay with me and my ex reluctantly had the boys ( I know that’s not an option for you) Physically I was fine . 
Wait to see what you are facing first then see if any friends can form a tag team to all do a little bit to help you out. I wish you all the very best and really hope you don’t have to go down this road. Xx