Edin

i had breast cancer july 22 .I'm fully back to normal now hete to help chat 

lots of lunps turn out good news here's hoping this is you 

good luck let us no how you get on 

love Lara ️

Hi Lara,

Thanks for the quick response! Nice to know I'm being heard by people that understand the agony.

I'm sorry to hear you went through that - did you have to have surgery and chemo? So pleased you are out of the other side though, and that gives me hope. Were you able to work or continue to work?

Sorry for all the questions, this is all going through my head just now.

x

Edin 

I was diagnosed in July had lunpectomy in July then had 2 nd operation in august removing 30 lymph nodes in arm it sounds long and hard but to be honest I worked right through from home only took a day after operation off I then had radiotherapy in nov . I stayed positive didn't give in for one min kept everything as normal that was my coping mechanism I think I didn't require chemo thankfully as the type I had and grade I wouldn't have benefited.

try to stay positive so many here get good outcomes easy for me to say don't worry but we are human we dewar the worst . 
I was told at my first appointment it looked suspicious so I knew what to expect 7 days later after biopsy confirmed. 
here to chat anytime xx 

love Lara ️

Hi

I am in the same boat I have had a lump found on my first mammogram and have had it seen under ultra sound and biopsies taken I am waiting for the results. I can't eat can't concentrate and reading so much online I've got myself into a real state. I think there is a way you can private message me if you want to chat direct xx

Marley 

Good luck lovely 

hete to help or chat 

love Lara ️

Hello from the sofa the day after my second wide excision (urg...2/3 week wait to see if they got all the cancer)! In comfort all I can say is that i found that mentally embracing my diagnosis and accepting that life is about constant change and pain (sometimes) and not fighting myself wishing it could all go away and practicing being  really being grateful for every small thing around me helped. Pain in life is inevitable, suffering optional! Hug yourself and love yourself and bring into hospital some very nice foods that you like to eat- healthy treats. After the op your fav healthy foods felt divine! Blueberries and an apple were amazing! Cry and be kind to yourself and love your people. You'll do this!! Oh and laugh- silly jokes and gentle comedy always good for laughter and tears! Wishing you well!! ️

Yes i think bringing in my own picnic felt like i gained back a degree of control, that i was embracing the fear and lack of control. For this last op i tried to treat it like a trip to a day spa! Silly but it helped.

Grateful 

I read that could relate to it all lol 

yes my 2 nd op was a spa trip made it easier 

I wish you a speedy recovery love Lara ️

Can't work out how to private message you, but I feel your pain exactly. It's so so so hard isn't it. And hard to share with those you love as they are equally as scared for you.

sending you so much hugs and thinking of you, wishing for the best outcome from the tests xxx

Thank you for this - so much helpful advice there and I'm so glad you are recovering well. Sending love and thanks x

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