I'm hoping the quick appointment is to say all is well. X

how are you doing x

Yes it's a good sign I think , I'm doing well thank you just waiting myself on the Oncotype score as my oncologist has said she don't think chemo is necessary so I'm a bit of in limbo if I'm having it or not it will ne another 3 weeks or more to find out another long wait xx 

It's the theme of this thread waiting games lol. Fingers crossed you won't need chemo xxxx

Hey. So results are in and I have invasive ductal grade 3 cancer. I have 2 lumps and because of the size of them and distance between them (and the fact I have small boobs) I have to have a mastectomy. Going back to discuss reconstruction on Thursday morning with my lovely nurse. Allsorts of emotions happening right now and even though I'm tired I can't sleep. 

Hi caz 

immsorry to hear it's confirmed, but the worry of waiting is the worst part now you no you can start to get yourself prepared the first few days is hard but for some unknown reason you deffo power through it your inner strength comes through and you get more positive, family friends will get you through , I found out June 29 th not long ago but seems like years ago now xx 

did they say operation first or treatment first ? 
I also had invasive ductal .

im akways here to chat or answer any questions of my experience so far xx

Thank you so much am I ok to message directly. 
I am having operation first so going to see nurse on Thursday to talk all things reconstruction. 
my husband hasn't stopped crying but Iv barely shed a tear. Im 37 and have 2 children and a very close family and when I told my parents and siblings I kept apologising because I was making them sad lol xx not told the kids yet I don't know how. X . 

Yes of course hun xx