Hi caz 

it's a worry try to stay strong until it's confirmed, I was told suspicious in my case it turned out to be breast cancer but this is not always the case I hope yours will be ok I wish you the best in akways here if you need a chat let me no how you get on when is your appointment big hugs xx 

Thank you 

Im Trying to think positive but it's hard as im

Sure you know. Iv been before for a suspected lump and was told it was ok after the initial scan so you kind of think that's what you will hear if you go again. Iv never had a mammogram before or biopsy so that in itself was crazy and painful. My husband says not to think about it until we know for sure it's just the waiting game is soooooo long. Xx 

im sorry to hear about your diagnosis. How are you doing x x

I'm doing well was a bit chaotic to start but had the operations all went well it's been so quick my diagnosis was 29 th June 2 operations now waiting to start chemo in 2 weeks , but in general I have been well and positive still working from home x

my freind went today for mammogram what a worry but hers was crusts so she danced home thankfully a lot of ladies find themselves here and a lot of the time it's just comes back all ok , the wait is the worst I only had a week wait after biopsy I was a wreck all week xx 

I am glad the operations went ok and I  hope your chemo goes well ( im not even sure that's the right thing to say, can chemo go well?? Lol) but I hope you know what I mean. Xx 

Thank you so much , keep in touch I will be so happy if you have your results soon and all is well got fingers toes crossed take care my love xx. Let me no when you hear anything I'm akways about to chat or DM me if you want when you get results if you don't want to post xx 

Thank you so much I will keep in touch xxx 

I feel so nervous today. Knowing they are talking about my results and I am still non the wiser. Trying to keep busy at work but going insane lol x 

Just had a call and have an appointment on Tuesday 20th at 2:30. X

That's good not to long to wait now , fingers toes crossed all will be ok tge waiting is the wurst thing ever keep busy xxx 

I'm hoping the quick appointment is to say all is well. X

how are you doing x

Yes it's a good sign I think , I'm doing well thank you just waiting myself on the Oncotype score as my oncologist has said she don't think chemo is necessary so I'm a bit of in limbo if I'm having it or not it will ne another 3 weeks or more to find out another long wait xx 

It's the theme of this thread waiting games lol. Fingers crossed you won't need chemo xxxx

It's the theme of this thread waiting games lol. Fingers crossed you won't need chemo xxxx

I no hun thank you xxx I hope so too xx 

Hey. So results are in and I have invasive ductal grade 3 cancer. I have 2 lumps and because of the size of them and distance between them (and the fact I have small boobs) I have to have a mastectomy. Going back to discuss reconstruction on Thursday morning with my lovely nurse. Allsorts of emotions happening right now and even though I'm tired I can't sleep. 

Hi caz 

immsorry to hear it's confirmed, but the worry of waiting is the worst part now you no you can start to get yourself prepared the first few days is hard but for some unknown reason you deffo power through it your inner strength comes through and you get more positive, family friends will get you through , I found out June 29 th not long ago but seems like years ago now xx 

did they say operation first or treatment first ? 
I also had invasive ductal .

im akways here to chat or answer any questions of my experience so far xx

Thank you so much am I ok to message directly. 
I am having operation first so going to see nurse on Thursday to talk all things reconstruction. 
my husband hasn't stopped crying but Iv barely shed a tear. Im 37 and have 2 children and a very close family and when I told my parents and siblings I kept apologising because I was making them sad lol xx not told the kids yet I don't know how. X . 

Yes of course hun xx