Aw lovely, that's awful - but also relatable... my hubby was all loving and caring at first...

If you need someone to sound off to, cry at or scream at, I'm here. We need that melt-down. It's *** scary.

The hubbys are scared too. They don't always know what to do and feel helpless. This can come across in different ways - much like you described. But some are jusf selfish wankers.

Sorry for my language. 

This is a very scary time and you can feel so lonely so quickly. I'm surounded by well-wishers and a loving husband but never felt so alone in all my life. This site helps loads. Please contact people on here. It really helps. 

Hope you're ok. Here for you. Cancer sucks! 

Hi

Im new to this and was drawn to this thread as lots of what you have said resonates with me.

I found an indentation/drawing in on my left breast end of March, Gp referred for 2 week follow up. Consultant sent for ultrasound and mammogram, although under 40 wanted to cover all bases. He had me back in and sent for mri both sides, which I had this Saturday. Next follow up on 30th May.

My rational brain says,  I've no facts as yet, the investigations are building a picture, but the wait is paralysing and its really hard for others to understand that if not experienced the same thing. I wonder if partners response are a bit ostrich like as too scary to think of it being anything but positive outcome.

Hope you find some comfort on here knowing that there are others out there, that get you and are here to listen and empathise.

Sending positive vibes for Thursday ,