Hello all!

im a 35 year old man, and 3 or months ago I developed a thing where I was urinating constantly. I finish, and literally have to go again minutes after. I’m up and down  like 10 times before I go to sleep. Also, feel very very tired and lethargic all of the time.

ive had 4 urine tests over the course of 8 weeks and they all showed blood. They obviously did blood tests as well, test all of my organs, and all but 2 areas apparently came back normal, they weren’t clear on explaining which ones though.

i saw a doctor yesterday, who went through the tests, I’m not entirely happy with my appointment and would like opinions please.

he effectively said that it unusual for a 35yo to get cancer! And all he kept going on about was STIs! I told him that this was impossible. Because I’ve been with my partner for 9 years, and was was tested before the relationship. And i know for a fact we are both loyal. But he didn’t let off.

so I have to have a test before I see the urologist, which is fine because I know it’ll come back negative 

but im worried that while they are wasting time with this, they are missing something which has been growing  now for far too long. 

Ive read on this very website that bladder/ prostate cancer is always detected from blood tests. 

Can anybody shed light please?? 

Thank you in advance