Hello

Im so very sorry you are having to go through this and can understand your fears this is only normal it is very scary going through all the process of finding out if you have cancer (or not) and your not alone on this site

You have been very sensible in seeing your doctor and getting an appointment at the clinic I know it's hard but save your strength for when you go and try not to worry about something that might well be ok until you know for sure that is.

I expect the worst scenario is going through your mind it's not easy I have been through it myself.

is there no one you can talk to about this some one to confide in it's awful that you cannot share your worries with some one close I have found that the nurses and help line at McMillan are very kind and helpful you could phone or email them Iv used them a lot when I have felt scared worried and frighten and there is always the Samaritans if you feel desperate it really helps to confide in some one.

Dont be so hard on yourself you are not being selfish I understand your feelings completely.

take care of yourself & all the best

Red xx

Hi.

i just found a lump in my breast last week. Waiting for the BC to call.  I'm really scared too. My mum had it but it was caught in time but her sister wasn't that lucky. I have been reading about about breast cancer and I have a glimmer  of hope !  Will you be going in for a biopsy ?