Hi there! I few days ago my boyfriend noticed a lump in his armpit around a centimetre big and painful to touch.
the lamp it's quite firm doesn't really move around so we went the same day to his GP and the doctors said to come back in a week to see if anything changes but both me and my boyfriend suffer with really bad anxiety and I personally looked up on the internet ( yes I know bad idea ) Ofc I found the worst case scenario but I didn't say anything to him cause I don't want to cause more anxiety.
my boyfriend had an history of breast cancer in his family cause his mom had it, she's fine now but you know still happened.
also he had a double mastectomy already over 2 years ago ( he's transgender male ) but I'm still scared it could be cancer and I'm not coping well with it at all.
i don't know what to do I want to tell him to don't wait for next week and book a private ultrasound but than I know I would make him so anxious so I keep it inside.