Hi All!

I hope everyone managed to get at least a little bit of respite from the fear and anxiety this weekend.

Vicki - how was the beach hut? Hope that fresh air did the trick for you.

Take care of yourselves xx

I took the kids to the cinema on Saturday, and then had my sons 4th birthday party on Sunday. So I've managed to keep quite well distracted!! 
 

The breast clinic just called, and they've moved my results appointment to 9:40 on Thursday, instead of 11:40. So at least I don't have to worry all morning. It will be school run, then appointment!! Praying for benign results!! Xxx

Hello, I've been reading this thread over the last couple of days. Very supportive and friendly! Similar situation to most of you - mine is PLCIS picked up through calcifications in breast at mammogram.

Diagnosed 25th Jan

Lumpectomy 14th Feb followed by emergency re admission on 19th Feb with huge haematoma. Surgery to evacuate haematoma on 21st Feb. 
Phew!

Been back to clinic today for a follow up and dressing removed. My scar is nastier than I thought but let's hope the critter is gone and I get clear margins in my results. I'll also be having radiotherapy. 
Im hoping for more interaction and support here than I've had on a different forum, I really need to talk to others to keep perspective and some sanity!

So here we are getting to know each other even though we'd rather not be here at all. Happy to share, support and chat. 
Also if anyone knows of any local groups, I'm in Derbyshire xx

Hi GT63

Welcome to this thread.  I'm so glad reading all the contributions from all the fantastic ladies on here has helped you, I certainly know it's helped me.  If sharing our experiences has helped in only a small way then that's amazing.  Everyone is wonderful at staying positive although there is a recognition that we all have bad days. Please reach out to everyone on those days, you will get back some wonderful support and good advice.

I'm sorry to hear that you had the haematoma after the lumpectomy.  That must have been very sore and the last thing you needed!

Sending you all good wishes and a hug.  I know everyone else will be here for you. X

Thank you so much ️ xx

Welcome GT63.

Sorry you find yourself here but glad you have discovered this chat as all the ladies are amazing strong supportive people and I have really valued being part of it.

Sorry to hear about your haemotoma. Not what you needed after the stress of diagnosis and lumpectomy.

Happy to chat any time. Wishing you all the best xx

Evening ladies!

Hope you are all doing OK!

Just to update, I met with my surgeon today and there was nothing new found on my MRI so plan remains to have wide lump excision with bilateral reduction. They will have to remove a bit more of the left breast than initially thought and I will lose my nipple but in the grand scheme of things I am good with that. 

Fingers crossed for clear margins but if not then am open to the idea of mastectomy although surgeon feels optimistic.

Next step surgery on 10th March so time to get organised and drum into my four year old that she won't be able to jump on mummy for a while lol.

Sending hugs to all xx

Thank you for your kind words. 
It does feel so supportive and welcoming here. It's good to share experiences and talk

Hello my lovely

Just saw your update. Glad nothing more was on the MRI and I'm happy you are at peace with what is to come. Hope everything else is  OK with you.

Big hugs xxx

Hi GT63! 

I'm rubbish and miss most of these updates. Welcome aboard. Like the other outstanding ladies, I have found real comfort and support from chatting. Until you even get close to the door of this world, you never quite know what people are going through or just how many awesome and strong women are going through similar journeys. Happy to chat, help and virtual hug whenever you need it xxx

Honestly, I do it as well. I think most of us do at some point during our journeys. I hope you are feeling a bit less anxious now? How has your day been? 

I had a very dubious 2 hour period from 12pm where I suddenly went to the dark side of my mood. No idea why, but I banished it with a hypnotherapy session and a nap! And this evening I've been cooking pancakes for my boy and have felt very normal. Thank goodness! Xxx

Thank you lovely. 

Stay strong xx

Thank you lovely. 

Stay strong xx