Dear Mollydot, I'm really sorry to hear about what you and your family are going through right now. I can't advise you what to do as that is your personal choice. I just wanted to reassure you that people may have different perspectives on this, but there is no right or wrong. You know yourself and your family better than anyone else and I am sure you will make the right decision for you all. 
 

Sending big virtual to you at this difficult time. Xx

Thank you for your reply. Your right I know it's my decision I spend so much time being strong for everyone I need to be strong for me for a little while. Thanks take care xx

Good luck Mollydot, sending you positivity, keep us posted if you feel up to it. Have you got your date for the lumpectomy yet? Take care of you too. We definitely need support on this journey and you have ours too remember - post whenever you need to xx 

Good luck Mollydot, sending you positivity, keep us posted if you feel up to it. Have you got your date for the lumpectomy yet? Take care of you too. We definitely need support on this journey and you have ours too remember - post whenever you need to xx