Hello

Just wanted to send a virtual hug to you..

And best wishes to your husband and sister x

I wonder if I could send you a friend request?

And I'm sorry to ask but I'm being investigated for pancreatic cancer and I have no one to talk to.

I just don't know what's going on.

I'm so sorry to ask at this time 

I'm just lost x

Hi of course not too sure how much help I'd be but I'm available anytime

Oh thankyou so much.

I'll send you a friend request now

Hi

Sorry to read about your husband and sister. Do you have a close friend you could talk with someone that perhaps could be a go between for you and family. 

You really need to look after yourself and get support as you are going to need it. 

Your obviously a strong person that's why they are leaning on you but you need a post as well.

I've started chemo and my partner is being my rock but I'm totally aware it's going to affect him too and he needs time out so I insist he still plays golf, goes to the pub etc.

Totally understand about wanting to turn the clock back thats how we feel but now we have to take it a day a time. 

Look after yourself 

Xxx

I e got a couple of friends who have been amazing through this but it's odd because people are really unsure how to react. I don't want to be that person who just whines all the time because things are being rubbish. It's really hard right now 

People find it hard to discuss thats what we found in the beginning. Once they realised it was real and knew found it easier.

You have every right to whine but there will come a time when you'll feel strong enough move forward positively.

Xx

You should call Cancer Research or Macmillan help lines. 
 

They will answer any questions you have. They are amazing. I called them when I was worried about anything. 
Ruby