Just told over the phone I have breast cancer

I was recalled after a routine mammogram and had some small calcification.  Had 2 biopsy last week and they just called with results to say its cancer and will refer me to oncologist. Gutted!! I'm 51 and a single mother to 6 year old twins. Scared to tell people especially my mum and scared how I will cope..

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  • So sorry to hear of your diagnosis it can be a very unsettling time.  I was where you are 3 months ago and know too well the fear you are feeling.  Firstly, you will cope, there is so much practical and emotional help available.  

    One of the things I wished I'd known when first diagnosed is that breast  cancer is not a one for all treatment, biopsies are needed to determine the grade, stage and receptors of the tumour/leison, these all need to be known to provide the correct targeted treatment for you, however this can take time which can heighten anxieties and fear.   Once this information is known the professionals will be able to talk to you about your treatment options, having a treatment plan will help you feel a lot better about what comes next.  

    You will get through this x 

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  • So sorry to hear of your diagnosis it can be a very unsettling time.  I was where you are 3 months ago and know too well the fear you are feeling.  Firstly, you will cope, there is so much practical and emotional help available.  

    One of the things I wished I'd known when first diagnosed is that breast  cancer is not a one for all treatment, biopsies are needed to determine the grade, stage and receptors of the tumour/leison, these all need to be known to provide the correct targeted treatment for you, however this can take time which can heighten anxieties and fear.   Once this information is known the professionals will be able to talk to you about your treatment options, having a treatment plan will help you feel a lot better about what comes next.  

    You will get through this x 

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