Hi everyone I'm new here so please bear with me.
My husband has just found out he has cancer in his ear canal, and possibly chest and throat as well. The latter were only tested yesterday but the doctors suspect it. He came home and told me everything and I'm acting as though he said he had a sore throat! Whats wrong with me? We even had a row about something trivial last night and I still didn't make allowances. Do you think it just maybe hasn't sunk in or am I a totally callous cow because if i was an outsider thats exactly what I would be thinking. Please advise me I really don't know how to be around him and I really do love him he deserves better.
I'm not a horrible person really but it dosent help that I'm going through the menopause and my moods are up and down .
Any help would be great please because I want to be able to help my husband not act as though there's nothing wrong with him.
Thanks
Alethea
P.S. critise me if you must but not too harsh lol