Tonsil Cancer - Whirlwind Week

Hi All 

Firstly Hats Off to the NHS in Wales, they have been super amazing since my diagnosis on New Years Eve. Thank you all 

The title of the post is Whirlwind Week and this is why:

New Years Eve I have a phone call from ENT confirming tonsil cancer.  Very apologetic confirmed over the phone.  Wants me in for a biopsy.   Later the same day I get calls from ward team and covid test centre booking appointments.

Monday 4th January i have a covid test at 9.30am. Results back same day, negative for Covid19.  On route to test centre call from pre assessment team asking me to go in straight after my covid test for my biopsy pre assessment.   Forgot to mention biopsy booked for 7th January. 

Tuesday 5th January have an ultrasound at 9.30am and an MRI ar 11.00am.  The ultrasound was an external ultrasound of my neck. They decided to take two needle biopsies of lymph nodes which took some doing as the nodes were so solid they couldn't get needle in... Thank goodness for local anesthetic :)

From ultrasound they decided to send me for a 3d scan of my jaw.  This was done primarily in case I need any teeth removed pre radiotherapy treatment.  Apparently radiotherapy can cause your back teeth to crumble.  Don't panic not everyone has this done.  i believe it totally depends on size, position of tumour and the amount of radiotherapy you need.

After the jaw scan I went straight for my MRI.  Think I  had two 10 minute sessions,  the second 10 with dye injected into my blood.  I had also had this done for a CT scan on 18th December.

Wednesday 6th January day off.  Which I used to eat as many nice things as possible :)

Thursday 7th January 07.30am its minus 4 degrees c and I'm back at the hospital with my overnight bag ready for another biopsy, I was told to expect to be in hospital overnight.  Due to covid we have to wait at the entrance.  Just 3 of us, asked lots of covid related questions and temperature checked before being escorted to the clean ward.

The ENT surgeon comes to see me to explain the procedure.  Remember everyone is different.   So for me they are going to remove the good tonsil and send it for tests.  What? Not the bad tonsil?  The reason for this is because when you have cancer in one tonsil it is pretty much a done deal that you will get itin the other.   Also by leaving the cancerous tonsil in it allows for more treatment options.  If they cut it out there will only be one treatment path.

During the tonsillectomy they also took biopsies of my bad tonsil and my tongue.   After the op ENT told me that it would take about 7 days for the results so they expect to be calling my Wife and I in a week on Wednesday. 

I was allowed to go home as long as I had eaten something, drunk something and had a pee.  I was home by 7pm the same day.

Sunday 10th January its 6am and I am sat in bed writing this post.  Next to me is a glass of water which I sip all night, my 6am pills and a lip balm.  My bottom lip took a battering during surgery and is very swollen and sore.   The cancerous side of my throat and shoulder is still painful and the right side is even more painful from the tonsillectomy.  Even my lymph nodes seem to be complaining  :)

But you know what, I don't feel sorry for myself,  I don't feel sad.  I'm going to lose weight, but hey I'm 5ft 6inch and 13 and a half stone (male) i could do with shedding a few pounds ;) 

I know this is just the start of a long hard journey,  but I'm ready... bring it on I say!

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  • H

    Had results today from biopsy on tonsil and now know its cancer, its all been really quick what with scans and hospital visits so not really had time to think about it now it's just starting to sink in but I'm pretty positive, I'm told its spread to a lymph node has anyone else had this 

  • HiAli

    I am sorry to hear your diagnosis, but the first thing I would say is there is always hope. Al my friend here has the same and is currently undergoing all the treatment. He is having a six week course of radiotherapy and chemotherapy over most of the week meaning daily trips. The first thing they have to do is make sure you have no teeth that will get corroded by treatment so need removing first,. They then measure you for the mask this apparently is quite comfortable. They then arrrange the neginnings of the treatment. It will not be easy so you will need a good support system around you - family, macmillans, friends especially when you have down days. Some people loose taste buds during treatment some can find swallowing hard but if you look back on our talks there are mouth exeercises to do. 

    Find all the exciting food things you love that are highly flacoured and stock up you will need to keep your weight up and need things that are exciting to make you smile. 

    good luck i am here is you want to talk. 

    stay strong x

  • Hi Judy

    Hope it was good news when you went for appointment, how are you doing

    Allison x

  • Hi Alli

    we feel a lot more at ease after the appt, he had a couple of worrying issues, one was a lump/swelling on the same side as the cancer under the jawline and the other was a couple of small lesions at the back of his mouth but the consultant thinks the lump is a blocked saliva gland damaged by the radiotherapy and he wasn't concerned with lesions at all.  He had a good look down his throat with the camera and is happy, he says there's slight radiotherapy changes still there but even to me it looked healthy.  The deafness again is probably the chemo, he has an appt with audiologist next week.  He had his MRI yesterday too and we are going back for the results in 3 weeks, it would have been sooner but we are going to Malta in 10 days and I don't think they'll phone with results as we have always had face to face consultations with everyone from the start.  Thank you for asking, hopefully we will get the news we want xx

  • Hi Judy

    That sounds promising and hopefully the swelling will go down soon, I'm the same I now have swelling below left ear which is painful on the same side as the cancer was I originally had it on the right but that went down and i still have a patch of what I think is Mucositis on left side of throat but doctor wasn't worried, I hope you have a lovely holiday try not to worry 

    Take care

    Allison x

  • hi everyone 

    sorry to hear people are still having problems or effects from the treatment and I really hope you get sorted. it is such a long road for you guys for recovery. Judy enjoy your malta trip. 

    take care 

    x

  • Hi Alli

    hope you are doing ok just wanted to let you know hubby had his results today, they said he had a really good response to treatment, the MRI was clear and there is no sign of any cancer.  We are absolutely delighted.  The swelling I told you about below his ear has gone, they think it was a blocked saliva gland which is common due the radiotherapy damage.

    Its fantastic that we've all had such positive results isn't it.

    Take care

    Judy x

  • Hi Judy

    That's amazing news I'm so pleased, I had a pet scan last week so waiting for results I'm hoping its just precautionary did your husband have a pet scan as well as the mri

    Allison x

  • No, just the MRI but he had a PET scan 2 weeks before he started chemo because the CT scan showed 'highlighted' chest nodes! It scared us to death at the time but they were sure they were just reactive nodes and the PET scan confirmed this.
     I asked the consultant today if he would be having anymore scans and he said only if they had cause for concern.

    im sure everything will be fine, it seems every hospital trust does things a little differently.  I'll keep everything crossed for you, let me know how it goes.

    Good luck x

  • Hello everyone,

     

    I just was going through this post to get some insight into tonsil cancer. My granda (74) has been diagnosed with tonsil cancer (hpv positive) with one lymph node involvement. No spread anywhere else and the doctors have seemed very positive they can cure this from radiotherapy alone.

     

    My question is why is he only getting radiotherapy? A lot of members on this forum with a similar diagnosis are having surgery chemo and radiotherapy or at least more than radiotherapy anyway and they have the same diagnosis - tonsil cancer with no spread and lymph node involvement - I can see some members even had tonsils and infected lymph node surgically removed.

     

    my granda has his first meeting with oncologist tomorrow so I want to go in prepared with questions. I know the consultant had said due to my grandas previous heart attack and need for stents 15+ years ago and *slight* poor kidney function from years ago they may just tackle this cancer with radiation.

     

    he did go in for a tonsillectomy 2 weeks ago but instead decided to only take biopsies and leave the tonsil as it allows for more treatment options.

     

    any advice would be so appreciated. Is their any questions I should ask tomorrow with my Granda?  
     

    Thanks 

  • Hi, my husband had tonsil cancer with spread to several lymph nodes, he had four lots of chemo and 6 weeks radiotherapy, no surgery just a biopsy as it had spread into the soft palate slightly.  It's now 5 months since he finished treatment and yesterday we were told his scan is clear and there is no sign of any cancer.  
    I think the reason your Grandad isn't having chemo is because of his other medical conditions, the chemotherapy can affect your heart and kidneys amongst other things, they do lots of checks on these before going ahead with chemo.  Maybe his age could be a factor too, it's a very brutal regime when it's combined chemo/radiation. HPV+ cancer is very treatable, if the oncologist thinks radiotherapy alone will be enough have confidence in them.

    good luck tomorrow, let us know how he goes on and if you want to know anything else just ask, for some of us it's all still very fresh in our minds.

    Judy

  • Hi Judy brilliant news about your hubby am so pleased. 

    I am now undergoing TB treatment and it is nasty, they are hoping this is the cause of the necrotising granulomatous inflammation in my throat and neck. the medication makes me loose some taste, have difficulty swallowing, so have special mouth stuff, made my throat feel like it had swallowed paint stripper so on high dose preds and increased omepraxole - only 5 more months to go lol. 

    glad though all is ok take care xx

    Elona 

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  • Hi Judy brilliant news about your hubby am so pleased. 

    I am now undergoing TB treatment and it is nasty, they are hoping this is the cause of the necrotising granulomatous inflammation in my throat and neck. the medication makes me loose some taste, have difficulty swallowing, so have special mouth stuff, made my throat feel like it had swallowed paint stripper so on high dose preds and increased omepraxole - only 5 more months to go lol. 

    glad though all is ok take care xx

    Elona 

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  • Hi Elona, so sorry to hear this but it's good that they finally got to the bottom of your problems.  Is the treatment all medication? The side effects sound as horrible as ever.  Did you ever hear how Dragonfinch went on, I think he's the only one ive not heard about since finishing his treatment?

    Hope you're feeling better soon

    X

     

  • Hi Judy

    Yes all medication now for the time being at least. 

    Dragonfinch is fine now thanks for asking he has moved home and seems to be ok from what i gather. he was given the all clear a few months ago now. so good news for all. 

    bet you must be releived now and hopefullly you can settle now too has not been easy for you i expect nevr is when your loved ones ar eill. 

    take care 

    am waiting to feel a bit better so i can get back in garden lol x

    Elona

  • Hi Elona

    Hope you are ok and coping with the side effects of the medication they sound brutal, the Macmillan nurse chased up my pet scan results as I'm having a lot of pain in throat and ear and its shown something in throat she said we can be cautiously optimistic but feel like I'm not out of the woods yet. How are the hedgehogs doing is belvedene ok

    Allison xx

     

  • Hi Alli

     

    So sorry you are still having problems let hope it is little and nothing just time taking because you had really bad lymphadma. fingers crossed let me know how you get on, will be thinking of you. 

    thankfully anit emtics are helping stop me being sick and starting to eat again so thats good. the nausea is however an on going thing. Nurses hope once I get over the two months initial treatment and start the next lot i should not be so bad. 

    Belvedine is doing really well bless her and the four babies are too they are nearly ready to go but am unsure whether to release or not at moment as they are still inexpereinced and young. 

    keep faith girlie you can pull through this xx

  • Hi Elona

    The medication your on sounds awful I really hope it gets easier soon, are you still having to work as well. I bet its easy to get attached to the baby hedgehogs I'd want to keep them lol so glad belvedines doing well. I'm trying not to worry I was so relieved after the mri, just taking each day at a time and trying to do lots of nice things with family and seeing friends which has been lovely

    Take care of yourself

    Allison xx

  • Hi Aliison

    I think you are being amazingly brave and glad your able to keep yourself occupied as we have said many times the waiting is the worst. fingers crosed. 

    have been off work but due to no money have to go back monday. dreading it. 

    going to try and have some fun if possible thibnzs weekend but vaccines tomorrow booster covid and flu then dekivery  o we shall see. 

    there is apparently a diet called inflammation diet - maybe somethging worth you looking at?? keep thinking of looking at too is supposed to help with our conditions. 

    try to enjoy yourself this weekend xx

     

  • Morning Elona

    Hope your having a good weekend its hard to be enthusiastic when you feel sick all the time hope it wears off soon, is there any benefits you could get so you could stay off until your better. I don't feel very brave but I'm still smiling just lol 

    Allison xx

  • Hi Elona

    How do you get on with vaccines hope there wasn't any nasty side effects and you managed to have a good weekend, was work ok it must be hard when you feel so ill with the medication your taking make sure you get plenty of rest when you get home

    Take care

    Allison xx