Recently diagnosed with BC

Hi everyone, 

Been diagnose with grade 1 BC. It’s worrying and had sleepless nights after being diagnosed in November after second mammogram that I got .7mm grade 1 BC. No matter how old you are it really affect to individual. We are bombarded with lots of question= how to deal with it? What is my kid’s  future when I’m gone?  How long I gonna live? Can I survive the treatment when I have underlying health issues? etc, etc.  I am 60 and recently been diagnosed with osteoarthritis and constant high blood pressure. 

Done the lumpectomy on 16 December 2020 and waiting for the schedule for radiotherapy. I was told with my breast doctor that after the breast operation we will wait for the biopsy. If anything left after the operation I will undergo a second breast operation. Then followed by radiotherapy for a week and medication up to 5 years. 

For now, I never tell any of our friends what’s going on. I want to keep it secret for now that I am undergoing treatment. Because to me telling them doesn’t help. I don’t want them talking about me dying. 

I only have the guts to join the chat and tell you about my health condition and hopefully we can share how we deal with our illnesses. I am a Christian and I believe God will never abandon us in times we needed Him most.

Best wishes. 

LL2011

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  • Hi I'm 48 and back nov 2020 had mammogram ultra sound biopsy I was convinced a cyst had one before anyway grade 2 bc was so shocked yesterday I had lumpectomy 2 tumors removed some lymph nodes waiting for results for either another operation  or radiotherapy  and  meds for 5 years I'm just praying to god I live keep me positive and get through it I have great husband family and freinds who I am so glad I talk too truthfully I have wrote my thoughts  down in diary with my wishes if I die that's the one thing I cant say out loud xxx

  • Hello Tas21,

    Thanks for the message. Sorry to hear you too encounter the same health problem like mine.

    When I was diagnosed with BC on 20th November last year and was told to undergo breast surgery on the 16th December, that very date I start abstain from eating red meat and sugary food. It was really a tough times since day one knowing that I have breast cancer and had sleepless night and lost weight drastically in just a week. 

    Best thing to do is always think positive and be strong. You are not alone, I am so glad I found this site and chat to people with similar health issues and to me, it really help sharing my situation to others. (Except telling our friends) 

    Best of luck to your treatment.

    Sending virtual hugs.

    LL2011 xx

     

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  • Hello Tas21,

    Thanks for the message. Sorry to hear you too encounter the same health problem like mine.

    When I was diagnosed with BC on 20th November last year and was told to undergo breast surgery on the 16th December, that very date I start abstain from eating red meat and sugary food. It was really a tough times since day one knowing that I have breast cancer and had sleepless night and lost weight drastically in just a week. 

    Best thing to do is always think positive and be strong. You are not alone, I am so glad I found this site and chat to people with similar health issues and to me, it really help sharing my situation to others. (Except telling our friends) 

    Best of luck to your treatment.

    Sending virtual hugs.

    LL2011 xx

     

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