New diagnosis

Hi everyone 

I'm Laura and I've just turned 29 and yesterday I was diagnosed with kidney cancer.

I'm currently waiting for a CT scan of my chest to be followed by a partial nephrectomy to remove the tumour and I am really struggling to stop crying or cope at all. 
I already have generalised anxiety disorder and so I am worrying about absolutely everything, especially because I have different aches and pains in my body which I am worried means the cancer has spread. I know only time will tell but I couldnt sleep last night worrying. 
I guess I just want to talk to someone who's been through what I'm going through or maybe some tips for coming to terms with the diagnosis. 
Thanks for any replies 

Laura

  • Hi Moonpuddle

     

    Thank you for your advice. You're so right and I found your post very comforting and a good way to look at it. 
     

    I just feel like my life changed overnight and one minute I was focusing on normal things and now I'm just overtaken by worry about this cancer that I didn't even know was there! 
     

    I wish you the best of luck with your new drug, how fantastic you were able to find that online! 
     

    Best wishes

    Laura 

  • Hello Laura, 

     

    I am sorry to hear your news, you are young and should not have to face this :(

     

    It is absolutley understandable that you cant stop crying and are worried, but you will find strength from deep inside and you will get through this, us girls are a strong breed!

     

    I dont have experience of Kidney Cancer to give you any advice so all i can do is wish you luck on your journey, Take care. 

     

    x