Hi ceecee i don't know if you know but hospice can be to to get the patient in better condition then sent home when they can manage better its not always end of life care.......... Billy 

Hi billygoatt.

Thanks for your reply. 

When things are not explained the way you have then you fear the worst. Thats human nature.

Hi ceecee until a while ago i thought same as you but there was a program on TV about hospices. It was surprising what they do to get patients home it was very educational for people like us, anyway good luck with your mother....... Billy 

Thank you so much 

Hi,

I tripped over this article a few weeks ago - it might help :-)

dailycaring.com/.../

Best wishes

Dave 

Thanks Dave. Will have a good read of that. Its just overwhelming.