I met with my consultant yesterday to discuss the results of my recent lumpectomy and sentinel node biopsy.
Good news - they got a clear margin on the tumour. Bad news - whilst the sentinel bode and second node were clear, the third node was positive for cancer.
Consultant said she would bet money on the other nodes being clear, but that conventional practice in the UK would be to undertake a full clearance just in case. In the US, conventional practice would be to NOT remove the other nodes as it was only present in one. Their research shows that rads can be as effective as removal.
So I now have to decide what to do. She said I'd probably have chemo either way, and maybe radio too.
I'm only 39, so I'm really worried about the potential life-long effects of the full node clearance. My friend (who had BC previously) said to have the clearance to make sure it's all out.
I have requested an appointment with the oncologist to see what her opinion is. But either way it's going to come back to me to decide. Feeling quite overwhelmed and not sure that I'll have total peace with either decision.
And now I'm receiving loads of messages from people wanting to know how i got on - so grateful for the love and support but it also feels a little bit overwhelming i don't want to have to talk about it.
Thanks for reading if you got this far!