I'm so sorry I have taken so long to reply, I hope your treatment is going well. My husband had 2 rounds of chemo and then a fit the day before his 3rd round. The chemo hasn't worked and his brain cancer spread even more , unfortunately it is in all the worst parts that effect personality, mood , memory etc. He has stopped treatment and given weeks to live. I am so angry. My 10 and 5 year old boys have councilling every 2 weeks. I am so mad as he wasn't given any treatment for nearly 3 months after diagnosis as the oncologist couldn't get a good enough sample of the lung tumour to see if he qualified for immunotherapy. They went directly through his chest in the end and the sample revealed he just qualified but I think he should have been give chemo immediately and then maybe immunotherapy later. I am even more furious that an X-ray in November 2018 revealed lesions on his spine and he was put on the 2 week pathway and he had 3 different scans and we got a letter in December 2018 congratulating him that the scans didn't reveal cancer and then less than 4 months later on 1st April 2019 he had a fit revealing lung cancer that had already spread to his brain and told he was stage 4 and terminal and then told it was in his spine. He had been badly failed and will lose his life aged 45 leaving behind 2 young children. He is on palliative care now and I am caring for him at home. I am losing him by the day, his amazing personality has gone and he is aggressive and my poor children are distraught x

I don't know what to say except for I can't imagine what you are going through. 

Counselling is valuable for your children as my children lost their dad when they were aged 6 and 8.

Im sending you all my love at this terrible time. 

Please feel free to contact me if you ever need a chat. 

Claire xx

Thank you Clare xx