My mum has stage 4 breast cancer, diagnosed yesterday.

Hi all, 

My mum yesterday was diagnosed with stage 4 primary breast cancer, that has spread to her ribs - thankfully no organs. 

It's a bit of a shock as you can imagine, partly because of how advanced it is and partly because she immediately got a S4 diagnosis - no prior warning signs other than a small lump in the breast.

She starts her hormone therapy today, so we'll see how that goes, but obviously we're all trying to remain positive and optimistic. 

I'm just curious if anyone can offer any advice or words of encouragement as to what to expect? Of course I can't help but read statistics online and terrify myself with the stage 4 survival rates, but if anyone could share some optimism about survivability with bone mets, I'd greatly appreciate it. 

  • Hello, I am sorry about your mum I belong to a Facebook group and there are just 100's of ladies on there stage 4 and still going strong 10 years plus down the line, we hear stage 4 and immediately think " how long"? But today that just isn't the case...

    do you know the cancer type? There are quite a few different types out there.....what hormone treatment is she on.....any other treatments??? X

  • The treatment she's on is Letrozole and (i think) Ibandronate but she gets more drugs next week. 

    She complains about back pain a lot, which I really really hope is only a pulled muscle but with how our luck has been lately probably means it's gone to her spine as well. She can walk but slowly and with pain, and doesn't get up and down stairs very quickly. 

    I do hear about people with several bone mets living long lives - 5 + years - but then of course I keep seeing statistics about a 51% chance of survival after 1 year, a 27% chance of surviving 5 years, median 3 years etc etc....it's hard not to freak out.