i have a large parotid gland tumour which I strangely have only just discovered. After initially being assured it was probably benign, the biopsies suggest a grade 1 malignancy. I need radical surgery (probably next week), and then 6 weeks of daily radiotherapy. While I have been reassured the tumour is unlikely to be life threatening, I am very concerned about the threat ro my facial nerve. The surgeon hopes to spare it but cannot guarantee it can be preserved during the surgery. I am also nervous about the radiotherapy, which I understand is gruelling. Does anyone have similar experiences they can share with me?