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Newly diagnosed Mesothelioma

HelJoh
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We were told this afternoon that my Dad has Mesothelioma. His condition has deteriorated quickly since having his biopsy a couple of weeks ago and his consultant has said he has a few months left to live. I am petrified at the thought of watching my lovely Dad die slowly knowing there’s nothing I can do for him. I’ve never been in this situation before and I am trying to get as much information together to help him as much as possible. I have 2 sisters I can talk to, but would love to hear from others who are or have been in a similar situation to mine.

  • Welcome to Cancer Chat HelJoh although I'm sorry about your dad has been diagnosed with mesothelioma.

    I know you're trying to get as much information about this diagnosis as possible so I just wanted to make you aware of the section we have on our website about this. To find out more just click here.

    I'm also going to put you in touch with [@Sheila43]‍ as her dad was given a similar prognosis back in December so hopefully she'll pop by to chat now I've mentioned her in this post.

    I hope this helps wish your dad all the very best on this journey.

    Kind regards, 

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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    Hi Heljoh,

    Im so sorry to hear about your dads diagnosis with this awful disease, It’s very hard news to take in.  It’s good that you have 2 sisters you can talk to and share your anger, frustration and pain with. The journey before you all will be hard :( 

    As steph said, My dad was diagnosed the beginning of December after lots of trips to the GP for a persistent cough/ chest infection. His prognosis is 3-7 months.

    We’re all devastated and still trying to get our heads around it, he had his 2nd session of  (palliative) chemo on 17th Jan and has been very poorly since. He’s decided he won’t have anymore chemo, his body just isn’t well enough. So for now, we’re trying to be as positive as we can for dad.  Everyday we have with him Is precious, one day will be really good, the next will be tiresome and filled with tears, you just have to go with the flow and allow your dad to feel what he’s feeling.

    It’s hard watching someone you love so much suffer like this but being there, with him every step of the way will make all the difference for him!

    I’ve sent you a friend request so please feel free to get in touch if you need to.

    Best Wishes to you and your family,

    sheila x

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