Hubby recently diagnosed with prostate cancer

Hello. My first post. My 54 year old husband has recently been diagnosed with locally advanced prostate cancer. It's broken outside the prostate and into the seminal vessels next to it. His PSA is 33. We have had conflicting prognosis from a consultant ( not my husbands usual one due to a mix up. He even asked why we were there and we said results of his scans and biopsy! ). Also the macmillan nurse who called my hubby the following day. The consultant said its very unlikely it can be cured but are aiming to manage it. His Gleeson score was 7/8. Also he is to start hormone therapy tablets and injections straight away followed later on by chemo. The macmillan nurse said they ARE aiming to cure this. His Gleeson score is 7 and hormone therapy will start then followed by radiotherapy. His head was all over the place at the time he failed to notice the conflicting prognosis. My husband called the hospital to be told the nurse assigned to him is on holiday now. Someone else will call him back Monday. His results should of been given by his consultant but the letter (sent 2nd class 3 days before) arrived the same day as his appointment in the afternoon, the appointment was that morning. They had his mobile/home numbers, they should of called him! The appointments department then offered him 3rd Nov when he called to complain. He said its been 7 weeks of tests and scans and he's not waiting that long for results. So that's how we ended up with this consultant as it was next available. We have to dig deep to fight this. I lost my daughter aged 20, hubby's step daughter, nearly 6 years ago to a cruel degenerative brain disease. It took everything from her over time. I gave up work to be her full time carer. I'm scared this will happen all over again. 

  • Hi Blondie1973. Welcome to the forum at this distressing time.

    I am not a doctor; however I was diagnosed and treated for early stage prostate cancer back in 2010. Since them I've become involved in a local prostate disease support group (I designed and maintain their website). 

    As someone on a different thread said, information on one's cancer is like an onion. Details are revealed slowly and over time as test results come in and more information becomes available. Some prostate cancers can usually be cured, some can't be cured given today's medical knowledge, and some fall in the middle. Unfortunately, that middle ground is the locally advanced prostate cancer. I think this might partially explain the conflicting and confusing prognoses you've both received. I think that the best option is to simply take it day by day, whilst hoping for the best. It might seem strange to say, but you will come to terms with this, and find some way of carrying on. 

    Whilst this is great site and very supportive forum, it's not brilliant when it comes to prostate cancer. I recomment instead that you visit the Prostate Cancer UK web site. On that site there is a useful information leaflet on locally advanced prostate cancer which you can download. There is also an on-line forum where you can talk to other prostate cancer patients and the people who care for them. 

    Another great charity is Tackle Prostate Cancer. They offer a free phone line and an email address where you can contact other patients and get support and information.

    It is also worth checking out whether there is a local prostate disease support group in your area. 

    I hope this information is useful. 

  • Thankyou so much for your reply. I will look into the sites you recommend. Yes it's daunting. I know we have a fight on our hands. 

  • Well the hospital did call back today. Now saying its Gleeson score 9 and to do yet another scan due to shadow on spine.