Lost

Just got told yesterday I have invasive And advanced bladder cancer T2 grade 3 go next week for scan to see where else it's gone, I'm lost in shock and don't know what to do its so overwhelming will I move on from this. Thanks if anyone can give me some advice.

  • Hi Izzyl,

    I am sorry to hear about your diagnosis. The best thing I did was give myself over to the doctors care,  focus on getting through one day, one treatment, one scan, at a time. At each report I would re-assess my situation and refocus on trying to be strong.  I tried to not think about anything but the next day, the next appointment, etc.. Keeping everything short term like that helped me through.  I hope this has helped you and remember, they can do so much these days. Let us know how you get on.

    Laura xx 

  • Hi Laura.                                                          Thanks for your reply it's so hard to get my head round this can't stop crying but trying to be strong for my daughter, I'm hoping it's the shock and I will find some strength to get me through this.I hope you are well thanks again I will definitely take on board what you said.                                                                                                                               Izzy x