Scared/worried

Hello all,

I was diagnosed with breast cancer a couple of weeks ago. It was picked up when I was called up for a breast screening due to my age (49). Unfortunately it picked up a 14mm Tumour and I am having this removed this Thursday. The cancer wasn’t picked up in the lymph nodes under my arm but they will be removing some to test. My biopsy also came back as HER2 positive so after surgery I will be having chemo.  My doctor and Macmillan nurse have told me everything is very treatable but I’m really worried something will be found during surgery. I can’t get this doubt out of my head. Is there anyone who has been in a similar situation that can put my mind at ease xxx

  • Hi Eve So glad to hear all went well and hopefully the nausea and soreness will ebb off soon. Xx
  • Well done Eve. Stage one completed. Rest up and get ready for the next one. 

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    Hi Eve,

    I am glad to hear that your operation went well. The discomfort should abate soon. So now another wait. This is usually the most trying time, so do your best to keep busy and distract yourself from the wait.

    Do let us know when you get your results.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • Hi Katrina,

    i know your op date is tomorrow and I want to let you know I’m thinking of you. I feel so much better now. Virtually no pain at all. The worse part was probably the reaction I had from the plasters that I was given to dress the wounds. I’m sure things will go as smoothly for you. Another problem I’m having is not doing anything. Being advised to do no lifting or heavy housework is impossible. I’ve already broken this rule and I’ve paid for it with pain and exhaustion. Don’t make the same mistake. Listen to your body and try not to worry about what’s not getting done at home. Xxxx 

  • Thank you Eve....im glad you are feeling a lot better now. I will take your tip on board and start drawing up a list of chores for him indoors lol....ooh that rhymes!

    Last day of work today......so much to do before I go off!

  • Hi there ... wonder what those plasters are made of ... I had scar swell after couple days and the redness was where the plaster had been ... and I've never had problem before ...

    Well try to get used to not doing a lot as it's easy to think you are more agile then you are ... it really is worth slowly , slowly and working up to do more ... it's not like wer in pain as then it would be easy to rest ... but it is classed as major op ... so get a couple of films in .. and think make the most of relaxing as you'll soon be back to mobility ... you did well lass ... my lad said at one point he was gonna strap my arm down if I kept stretching it too far ... 

    Now it's our little cournish pasties turn ... she was on here last night answering and helping others ... what a great lot of breast buddies on here at the mo ... so keep in touch as wer here no mater how your doing ... so take care eve ... chrissie xx

  • Hi all. I wanted to update. Ok done. Still in hospital as bp is very low at the moment. Hopefully I can go home later if we can get this up. Am doing ok x

  • Hi Katrina, sorry to hear you are still in hospital. Enjoy the rest while you can. How long do you have to wait for your results? I imagine you’re feeling glad that this first part is over. Take care, much love Evelyn x

  • Hi evelyn. I'm home. Have slept for most of yesterday and today since getting here!

    I'm very sore and stiff but ok. 

    I go back to see the consultant on 2nd may for my next lot of results. Hopefully the margins and nodes will be clear and we can move forward to the radiotherapy. And if not...more surgery it will be. But it's ok. We will see when we get there. 

    I Hope you are doing ok. I've completely forgotten if you've had your appointment yet or not. Sorry. Culmination of anaesthetic and drugs lol x

  • I know exactly what you what you mean about the sleeping. Even now I’m sleeping more than usual. Not that I’m complaining. Rest helps you heal. I have my appointment on the 24th of this month to find out if my margins and nodes were clear and then start chemo followed by radiotherapy and hormone treatment. 

    The sorness will go away soon. I feel good just really bored and I think that’s making me feel a little depressed which I also think is normal. Our bodies and minds have been through trauma.

    Hope you continue getting well and good luck with your results. Let me know how you get on xxxx