Hi Ab. I had same experience last December weekbefore Christmas. Hubby taken into hospital with urinary problems died three weeks later. I think the shock carried me through it. Afterwards was hard when it all started to come back to me. Don't have regrets we all say and do things during a relationship when we annoyed etc. That's just life. Focus on your hubby tell him how you feel about him. Hold him kiss him. Be there at the end. That will carry you through. You also have a young child so you will need to focus on him too. Get as much support as you can. Take care and warmest wishes to you all. WA

Same here hun

my 42 yr old partner went gp 6 months ago for weight loss and unable swallow food then drink. After numerous scans and biopsies they told us it wasn't cancer and diagnosed him with achalasia and that he needed a simple operation. Well that was a misdiagnosed case of stomach cancer T4. So f@^** angry this wasn't picked up sooner! Told him been there poss 12 months yet failed to spot it!!! We have two boys aged 8 & 9 and had the unfortunate moment of having to tel them daddy not well. 

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