Hi Jane welcome here where you will find lots of support and help. The scan is tomorrow? Well lets hope that it is all clear and no spread. So put it all on one side and just allow your self to putt it all in the hands of the doctors. So, good morning! Its my wife with the cancer - not me = but the road travelled by partners is really the same and I know it is a real roller coaster!! It neednot be = so enjoy the day and lets cross our fingers, brave lady, together.

I was sorry to hear about dad = that is terrible and must really upset you - especially with your illness. My wifes mum passed right in the middle of wifes cancer treatment - she also had cancer = it devastated my wife. In a funny way - it gave my wife the strength to battle her cancer and get well again. That was three years ago - she still thinks about mum loads. I don't know why life throws these things at us - you must feel so upset and battered by events. My prayer for today is that things will now enter a time of healing for you and your family. Take care

all the best and let us know how the scan goes = Brighteyes xx

Thanks for your message, sorry about your wife, trying to stay positive and keeping myself busy just have to take one day at a time. Thanks again for your encouragement cheered me up today. Hope your wife is not too bad. Jane xx

Oh thank you for yr regards to my wife = but please feel entitled to feel selfish - we are here to support you!!

We are waiting for results - so we are also up in the air!!

You take care xxx