Hi Shirley, I'm so sorry you are facing this cancer and have to lose your breast. I can understand your concern about that and your worry about your husband's reaction to it. Has he said anything at this point to you about it? Perhaps it is bothering you more than him? I would think he would rather have you alive than have you lose your breast. Certainly, it is very traumatic to be diagnosed with cancer, but then to face this body altering surgery adds to that trauma. My neice, who is about 50, recently lost her breast to cancer and it was a struggle for her as well, but both she and her husband said they were glad that she didn't lose her life. I think once the shock of hearing this news settles down, you and your husband will be in a better frame of mind and hopefully, will be able to deal with its' aftermath.

Come on to the forum and let us know how you get along. Also, there are others on here who have been through your experience and hopefully, someone will respond who can relate. You will find people on here very supportive, so don't hesitate to come back for support.

Take care.

Lorraine