So my step father (63yrs old) was a very fit man, hgv driver, never poorly, a little over weight but nothing more. He was suffering with knee pain and as a result ended up having to have a knee replacement about 6 weeks ago, his knee was recovering well, however he was complaining of stomach pains and not being able to go to the loo, he was given an enema and various other laxatives to ease the discomfort but he still complained he was in pain, his appetite went and he began to lose weight. He visited the gp about 6 times, each time he was told his stomach was ok and sent home. Last Saturday he was admitted to a and e as he was complaining of back pains, after several diagnosis including collapsed lung, blood clot on lung, and fluid on lungs, today he has been told he has 3 tumours on his liver and the cancer has spread to his lungs, when he asked about timescales he was told weeks. We are in absolute shock and can not understand this prognosis! He appears well, he does not look like he is dying. My mum has gone into auto pilot and they are going to talk funerals etc over the next few days. I cannot comprehend what he is going through being told this, we are all absolutely devastated, so many questions, how has this ever got missed? How long has it been there? Why has this never been seen before? I feel numb tonight and thought by finding a forum to write it down on and gather other people's thoughts might help.
Thanks you for reading